"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ex of 4 years..

Desert Rose

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Some info: I dated this girl for around four years. It was an up and down relationship to say the least. We broke up in the spring and we havent talked since then. A month or so ago she texted me saying hey, I didnt respond because of the way she left our relationship. She texted me again a few weeks later saying she misses me. I barely talked to her just to see what she had to say... she wants me to see her when I come home from college. I made it clear that I really didn't wanna see her so she came up with the excuse that I have her bowl and I need to give it back to her.

It was a mistake on my part to date this girl for as long as I did. I might see her to give her bowl back to her, and to bounce her titties around a little bit. I need some advice as I'm not too sure seeing her would be the best thing for me. She really is a stupid slut and all I would want from her is to fvck the **** out of her. Have you guys ever been through similar **** with your ex gfs? I've had a dry spell in the past month or so and she really is a good fvck but I dont know if I'd wanna deal with her stupid ****. Spin me some advice guys I'd really appriciate it!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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I doubt the sex would be worth it. Don't let her creep back into your life in any way. Tell her you thought about it but you don't think seeing her would be a good idea.
 

Desert Rose

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Yeah I've really thought about it in that way.. I think I'm strong enough to handle it and I know it would mess with her head a lot more than mine as I've already decided she will never be in my life other than a hookup. But on the other hand it is a lot easier not having her in my life period. Has anyone gone through something similar?
 

WC2

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The sex IS NOT worth it. I've had my ex of a few years creep in and back out of my life. It always ends up bad and leaves you pissed off in the end.

Tell your ex to move along.
 
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