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It's a good time to start.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Ex-neighbour, how would you approach?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You have two options, but you cannot do both.
Once you use the 1st choice, then the 2nd choice will be completely invalid.
1) Ask her out on Facebook
I personally wouldn't do this because people on Facebook are f*cking weird.
Even the slightest bit of interest would creep someone out.
On Facebook you have a 78% chance of being labeled a creep for anything you do.
If you feel comfortable doing this, then just go for it.
2) Knock on her door
I know it sounds ballsy, but what have you got to lose?
The only way to read body language is to do it in person.
You'll be able to hear her level of enthusiasm when you speak to her.
If you're going to ask her out, it's now or never.
Just remember you can ONLY choose 1 of these 2 options. Not both!
Once you use the 1st choice, then the 2nd choice will be completely invalid.
1) Ask her out on Facebook
I personally wouldn't do this because people on Facebook are f*cking weird.
Even the slightest bit of interest would creep someone out.
On Facebook you have a 78% chance of being labeled a creep for anything you do.
If you feel comfortable doing this, then just go for it.
2) Knock on her door
I know it sounds ballsy, but what have you got to lose?
The only way to read body language is to do it in person.
You'll be able to hear her level of enthusiasm when you speak to her.
If you're going to ask her out, it's now or never.
Just remember you can ONLY choose 1 of these 2 options. Not both!
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