Ex is Going to be at the Club

[AlwaysLearning]

Sup guys, this board is the shiet...

Anyways, I broke up with this chick a few days ago. Since then, me and a good friend of mine decided to hit up this club later on this week.

I talked to my ex on the phone last night and she mentioned that she's going to be at the same club on the same night. I told her that I planned on going that same night as well.

I've been looking forward to going to this place and my friend is definitely amped. Now I'm apprehensive about going because I'm not ready yet to see my ex flirting and dancing and God knows what else with other dudes. At the same time I dont want to let my buddy down by not allowing him to have a good time because of my issues.

I'm open to suggestions and advice, holla back.

-AlwaysLearning

 

[jakeyboy]

if you feel bad about her flirting and dancing with other dudes, imagine how she must feel when you do the same to her. ignore her, let that thought fly by and have fun. know that you are the prize amidst the sea of sexy chicks!

 

[DJ_Dork]

broke up? i bet you on george bush's cocaine stash that they're going to be back together within a couple weeks or sooner.

 

[AlwaysLearning]

Thanks guys, yeah I'll try to go and just have a good time and not let this shiet bother me..

Thanks again for the help, still open to suggestions...


-AlwaysLearning

 

[crackhead]

Originally posted by AlwaysLearning


Now I'm apprehensive about going because I'm not ready yet to see my ex flirting and dancing and God knows what else with other dudes.

i know what you mean. perhaps you could use this as an opportunity to take a step towards overcoming this.. but yea, if not, fake it.. and try to come off like youre cool with everything