"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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EX girlfriend's Facebook comment...

JimmyBizzle

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Ex-gf made a comment on a mutual friend's status about being ****-faced immediately following a comment I made about something unrelated(almost certainly to make me jealous or get under my skin or something).

Thoughts on liking her comment to show her she's being dumb, to get her hamster spinning to show her I really don't care? Cause I know she'll know that I'll see it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Greasy Pig

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Just ignore. Read the second part of my sig.
 

JimmyBizzle

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Perfect, that was my plan/what I've done, just always like hearing opinions on here/get discussions going.
 

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This is why i will never add even a significant other my Facebook. They just won't mix well among my friends (unless they met them all, as if). I can tell you she either:

a) Looking for your reaction
b) Looking for some contact
c) Looking to see your inner hamster

All for her inner hamster !

Simply ignore her or if you really want to cut her out of your life, wait a few weeks and block her so it will be less likely that you did it for that comment
 

Checkmate12

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Well lets look at things from her perspective for a second..

If she truly did post the comment just to get under your skin or get your attention, what would satisfy her objective? For you to acknowledge her distasteful little comment. You like it and she says "mission accomplished."

If she posted the comment randomly, with no intentions of getting under your skin.. then you liking her comment would make you look foolish. Youre giving her attention when she wasn't even working for it.

If you ignore the comment altogether, she will likely become a little frustrated and try harder, assuming getting your attention was her original intention.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VladPatton

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instantnoodles said:
This is why i will never add even a significant other my Facebook. They just won't mix well among my friends (unless they met them all, as if). I can tell you she either:

a) Looking for your reaction
b) Looking for some contact
c) Looking to see your inner hamster

All for her inner hamster !

Simply ignore her or if you really want to cut her out of your life, wait a few weeks and block her so it will be less likely that you did it for that comment
↑↑↑↑ This! ↑↑↑↑
 

In2theGame

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Malice said:
As soon as you acknowledged her existence, you lost.
Exactly.
 

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*** on your hand and slap it around her face.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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