"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EX girlfriend's Facebook comment...

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Ex-gf made a comment on a mutual friend's status about being ****-faced immediately following a comment I made about something unrelated(almost certainly to make me jealous or get under my skin or something).

Thoughts on liking her comment to show her she's being dumb, to get her hamster spinning to show her I really don't care? Cause I know she'll know that I'll see it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just ignore. Read the second part of my sig.
 
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Perfect, that was my plan/what I've done, just always like hearing opinions on here/get discussions going.
 
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This is why i will never add even a significant other my Facebook. They just won't mix well among my friends (unless they met them all, as if). I can tell you she either:

a) Looking for your reaction
b) Looking for some contact
c) Looking to see your inner hamster

All for her inner hamster !

Simply ignore her or if you really want to cut her out of your life, wait a few weeks and block her so it will be less likely that you did it for that comment
 
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Well lets look at things from her perspective for a second..

If she truly did post the comment just to get under your skin or get your attention, what would satisfy her objective? For you to acknowledge her distasteful little comment. You like it and she says "mission accomplished."

If she posted the comment randomly, with no intentions of getting under your skin.. then you liking her comment would make you look foolish. Youre giving her attention when she wasn't even working for it.

If you ignore the comment altogether, she will likely become a little frustrated and try harder, assuming getting your attention was her original intention.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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instantnoodles said:
This is why i will never add even a significant other my Facebook. They just won't mix well among my friends (unless they met them all, as if). I can tell you she either:

a) Looking for your reaction
b) Looking for some contact
c) Looking to see your inner hamster

All for her inner hamster !

Simply ignore her or if you really want to cut her out of your life, wait a few weeks and block her so it will be less likely that you did it for that comment
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Malice said:
As soon as you acknowledged her existence, you lost.
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Exactly.
 
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*** on your hand and slap it around her face.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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