"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EX girlfriend's Facebook comment...

JimmyBizzle

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Ex-gf made a comment on a mutual friend's status about being ****-faced immediately following a comment I made about something unrelated(almost certainly to make me jealous or get under my skin or something).

Thoughts on liking her comment to show her she's being dumb, to get her hamster spinning to show her I really don't care? Cause I know she'll know that I'll see it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Greasy Pig

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Just ignore. Read the second part of my sig.
 

JimmyBizzle

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Perfect, that was my plan/what I've done, just always like hearing opinions on here/get discussions going.
 

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This is why i will never add even a significant other my Facebook. They just won't mix well among my friends (unless they met them all, as if). I can tell you she either:

a) Looking for your reaction
b) Looking for some contact
c) Looking to see your inner hamster

All for her inner hamster !

Simply ignore her or if you really want to cut her out of your life, wait a few weeks and block her so it will be less likely that you did it for that comment
 

Checkmate12

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Well lets look at things from her perspective for a second..

If she truly did post the comment just to get under your skin or get your attention, what would satisfy her objective? For you to acknowledge her distasteful little comment. You like it and she says "mission accomplished."

If she posted the comment randomly, with no intentions of getting under your skin.. then you liking her comment would make you look foolish. Youre giving her attention when she wasn't even working for it.

If you ignore the comment altogether, she will likely become a little frustrated and try harder, assuming getting your attention was her original intention.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VladPatton

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instantnoodles said:
This is why i will never add even a significant other my Facebook. They just won't mix well among my friends (unless they met them all, as if). I can tell you she either:

a) Looking for your reaction
b) Looking for some contact
c) Looking to see your inner hamster

All for her inner hamster !

Simply ignore her or if you really want to cut her out of your life, wait a few weeks and block her so it will be less likely that you did it for that comment
↑↑↑↑ This! ↑↑↑↑
 

In2theGame

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Malice said:
As soon as you acknowledged her existence, you lost.
Exactly.
 

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*** on your hand and slap it around her face.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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