I am just trying to understand the female mind. Are they completely retarded? Are the all like that? Why do they do what they do?....I just don't get them. Maybe men in general are not supposed to get women, and just let them do what they do completely ignoring it and doing our own thing while still having them.
So anyways, I haven't been on this site for a while, last time I think I made a thread was when I was whining about my gf leaving me and moving out. Then going through a whole bunch of unnecessary drama, mostly due to my inexperience in a relationships and break ups.
She was an HB8, good looks, smarts, personality and unbelievably wealthy. After she broke with me, I managed to beat living crap out of her friend in a club, call he really drunk after clubs, argue constantly on the phone while being drunk and other unnecessary AFC mistakes like talking to our mutual friend about how much I loved her. After all that, of course we cut all contact and it was to the point that I thought she will get a restraining order on me if I didn't stop calling and harrasing her drunk. I am not proud of what I did, I was completely out of line by calling her and getting violent with her friend. I am glad that I learned from this mistakes, so I will not be the crazy bf/ex-bf next time. Anyways, what I am trying to get here too...
About a little over a month ago my roommate and I who also knows her bumped into her in a club after a little over a year we broke up. She was tippy toeing around me, buying me drinks, running and getting me cigarettes when I asked her and even asking my roommate if I left when I went to the bathroom. After that, she been trying to get a hold of my roomate tellin him she got some gf's and we should all hangout...Then started talkin to me on MSN. Having just conversations with ****s and giggles like nothing ever happened.
Then she tells me how her ex bf after me acted not to long ago and said he was crazier then I was, by doing some other **** close to what I did, but not even...I was kidding around and said sounds like I was the crazier one cause I actually beat up her friend up unlike the former. Her response shocked me, she said out of no where " I dunno, at least you have a great sense of humor...you are much cooler then him and as far as beating up my friend, you were really really drunk...."
So after all the **** that I've done as the crazy ex-bf, she compliments me, and justifies sort of the things I've done. Even though I was clearly in the wrong. Low self esteem? Co dependency? She wants me back? Are all women more or less like that?
Go figure women....Thats all folks.
So anyways, I haven't been on this site for a while, last time I think I made a thread was when I was whining about my gf leaving me and moving out. Then going through a whole bunch of unnecessary drama, mostly due to my inexperience in a relationships and break ups.
She was an HB8, good looks, smarts, personality and unbelievably wealthy. After she broke with me, I managed to beat living crap out of her friend in a club, call he really drunk after clubs, argue constantly on the phone while being drunk and other unnecessary AFC mistakes like talking to our mutual friend about how much I loved her. After all that, of course we cut all contact and it was to the point that I thought she will get a restraining order on me if I didn't stop calling and harrasing her drunk. I am not proud of what I did, I was completely out of line by calling her and getting violent with her friend. I am glad that I learned from this mistakes, so I will not be the crazy bf/ex-bf next time. Anyways, what I am trying to get here too...
About a little over a month ago my roommate and I who also knows her bumped into her in a club after a little over a year we broke up. She was tippy toeing around me, buying me drinks, running and getting me cigarettes when I asked her and even asking my roommate if I left when I went to the bathroom. After that, she been trying to get a hold of my roomate tellin him she got some gf's and we should all hangout...Then started talkin to me on MSN. Having just conversations with ****s and giggles like nothing ever happened.
Then she tells me how her ex bf after me acted not to long ago and said he was crazier then I was, by doing some other **** close to what I did, but not even...I was kidding around and said sounds like I was the crazier one cause I actually beat up her friend up unlike the former. Her response shocked me, she said out of no where " I dunno, at least you have a great sense of humor...you are much cooler then him and as far as beating up my friend, you were really really drunk...."
So after all the **** that I've done as the crazy ex-bf, she compliments me, and justifies sort of the things I've done. Even though I was clearly in the wrong. Low self esteem? Co dependency? She wants me back? Are all women more or less like that?
Go figure women....Thats all folks.