slickjesse
Don Juan
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- May 25, 2003
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i went out with a girl for 6 months. we got too serious too fast and things kind of self-destructed. when we broke up i acted AFC-ish. i always gave into everything she wanted. we still told each other we "i love you" but she said she wasn't in love with me anymore. she went home for the summer. during this time i decided to stop my AFC ways. ive been hanging out with different girls and having fun with my friends and doing things i love. i haven't called her at all and she has called me a few times. i said i was heading her way for an event this weekend so we should meet up and hang out. during this time i made sure to be ****y/funny and not give into things she wanted. she was constantly grabbing my hand and leaning into me. when we were at a resteraunt with friends she said she was cold and asked me to put my arm around her. when we were driving she out of nowhere turned to me and said "i love you" for the first time in a long time. i said it back. when i was leaving i thought about kissing her but i didn't wanna ruin what i had going if she didn't want that so i kissed her on the cheek.
i like the position im in interest level wise but im not sure what to do from here. ive realized that i actually do love this girl and wanna be with her but we have a past so i dont think i can follow DJ rules exactly because they are for initial meetings with girls. i feel it would be best to show interest but let her know i wouldn't fall apart without her. when i got home i text messaged her saying that im home and i wished she was here so we can have more time to hang out and that ill talk to her soon love, jesse. whats my best move from here. i know that was kind of an AFC move but with all we've been through i felt i needed to show some kind of interest cause i dont want her to think im not interested at all (i.e. when i didn't kiss her). what should i do considering my situation? thanks guys!
i like the position im in interest level wise but im not sure what to do from here. ive realized that i actually do love this girl and wanna be with her but we have a past so i dont think i can follow DJ rules exactly because they are for initial meetings with girls. i feel it would be best to show interest but let her know i wouldn't fall apart without her. when i got home i text messaged her saying that im home and i wished she was here so we can have more time to hang out and that ill talk to her soon love, jesse. whats my best move from here. i know that was kind of an AFC move but with all we've been through i felt i needed to show some kind of interest cause i dont want her to think im not interested at all (i.e. when i didn't kiss her). what should i do considering my situation? thanks guys!