Some people just need to learn the hard way.f283000 said:this must be the millionth "gf/ex re-initiated contact" thread i've seen and they always end the same way.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Some people just need to learn the hard way.f283000 said:this must be the millionth "gf/ex re-initiated contact" thread i've seen and they always end the same way.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
:crackup:Mantis Toboggan said:I know what you're going through man. So don't think I'm being harsh...
But Hit it and leave? Who are you fooling? That doesn't sound like you. If you hit it tonight, you'd be waking up early to serve her breakfast in bed tomorrow. This little 3-month relationship has you all mushy and soft.
You need to just break ties with this girl for a while. Go out on the town for a few months, work out, meet women, make more friends...basically become a new man. If you wanna give her a call AFTER all that, just to show off the cool new you, then go for it.
I hate watching re-runs too.f283000 said:oh great not this s**** again
this must be the millionth "gf/ex re-initiated contact" thread i've seen and they always end the same way.
That's not always true though. Some girls legitimately feel like they screwed up when breaking up with their boyfriends. In the story of my ex and me, there wasn't any other guy in the equation. She started talking to me about less than a week after things had ended. I cut off contact, and it screwed with her. If anything else had been happening on the side, I would have heard about it, seeing as she was still hanging out with my friends. Girls don't always leave one guy for another, sometimes they simply take a break from dating. Some girls leave their boyfriends only for the fact they don't have feelings for them anymore. I still stand by my original message that this won't work out in the end, and you're only holding yourself back by going back to this girl. She WILL break up with you again.sodbuster said:OK, here's my take. THe guy she WAS interested in dating,didn't fall for her,it didn't work out, etc.,etc., SO ,she calls to see if you'll take her back-give her dinner and sex until she can find better. You are looking to get hit harder next time.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.