"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ex-girlfriend says I can't sleepover anymore?

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guitaronfire411

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I noticed today that she has re-added guys onto her Facebook that were removed before. The thing is, she has obviously removed the actual action that states she has re-added these guys...I find that suspicious.

She put out last Thursday and when I tried to get intimate with her on Monday, she said that she felt disgusting and was on her period. She said that I would have to wait 5 days before we can do it again.

Anyways, she let me stay over last Thursday and now she says I can't. She used to let me but keeps saying that she cannot sleep with me there. I couldn't stay over Monday for the same reasons.

On Monday she said that she's going through family problems and stressing out over that and the fact that she won't see me after early April. Do you think this is BS to cover her tracks? That is my suspicion.

I am thinking that she might be seeing other guys and not telling me. What should I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Umm...it's your ex-girlfriend, you shouldn't be staying there at all. Move on.
 
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Anybody else ever just wonder "What's the point?"? I look at a post like this and I don't have words. I just feel sorry for the poster and hope I never come in contact with him.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, that is something that is inevitable with any FB, let alone an Ex that turned into one. Thats part of the deal, and you cant say, or do a thing about it.
 
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Lol shes your EX gf you fuking retard.

Geez some of the things ppl say on here scares me with the stupidity.
 
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It sounds like either she got over you or is interested in some new guy(s), or both. This happened to me when I broke up with my last girlfriend. We still kept hooking up for a while even while she had started seeing this other guy, but she said we should stop because her and this guy were getting more serious. No skin off my back; I totally understood.
 
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Thanks goes out to the non-keyboard jockey replies.

She's my ex, but we both agreed on seeing each other again and that escalated from kissing to going all the way. I thought we were getting closer than before but it looks like she might a) want to bring on the hurt b) enjoy being single with sex on the side from multiple guys.

I mentioned other girls to show her that I could be with someone else --- and she said I should go for them. So that backfired on me because she got super-jealous. I know that she will calm down and probably phone me tonight, as it's happened once or twice before.
 
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:crackup: what the hell? Exes are exes for a reason. Stop boinking her and move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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