"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ex Girlfriend Prom Situation

Ken88

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Ok so I am taking my ex girlfriend to prom. It has been almsot a year since we went out and she recently started instant messaging me to me a few weeks ago out of the blue. I want to hang out with her a few times before hand so its not akward. I dont know if she just wants to go to prom or is into me again. What are some good idea for things or places to do/ go to and hang out? And how should I act if we see a movie or somethin? Should I jsut act like its a friend or turn on my "game."?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girlsarecrazy

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Don't build up an emotional connection again. I'd straight go for sex. Turning Ex's into fvck buddy's are smarter than bringing her back w/ another commitment.
 

jlazz

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DONT try to get into a relationship again. Just make a move and if she falls for it, stick w/ it. Don't bring up anything about a relationship. As long as you don't bring it up, you can still fk her.
 

Ken88

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today i found out more info, and it sounds like she just wants to use me to go to prom since she is a 10th grader and im a senior. She cant even stay afterwards for the afterparties or anything. Any suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zerotwoonenine

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if your relationship with really well with her, then take her as a friend, she will be telling all her friends about the health breakup.
She is not into you, if u want, take her to the prom, but its suggested to use the prom as a tool to get better with a girl who you are chasing after.
DO NOT keep her as a friend if your reason for broke up was:
1.she cheated on you
2.she was a bich
3.she was not interested in a relationship and was playing you
 
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