"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ex Girlfriend Prom Situation

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Ok so I am taking my ex girlfriend to prom. It has been almsot a year since we went out and she recently started instant messaging me to me a few weeks ago out of the blue. I want to hang out with her a few times before hand so its not akward. I dont know if she just wants to go to prom or is into me again. What are some good idea for things or places to do/ go to and hang out? And how should I act if we see a movie or somethin? Should I jsut act like its a friend or turn on my "game."?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't build up an emotional connection again. I'd straight go for sex. Turning Ex's into fvck buddy's are smarter than bringing her back w/ another commitment.
 
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DONT try to get into a relationship again. Just make a move and if she falls for it, stick w/ it. Don't bring up anything about a relationship. As long as you don't bring it up, you can still fk her.
 
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today i found out more info, and it sounds like she just wants to use me to go to prom since she is a 10th grader and im a senior. She cant even stay afterwards for the afterparties or anything. Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if your relationship with really well with her, then take her as a friend, she will be telling all her friends about the health breakup.
She is not into you, if u want, take her to the prom, but its suggested to use the prom as a tool to get better with a girl who you are chasing after.
DO NOT keep her as a friend if your reason for broke up was:
1.she cheated on you
2.she was a bich
3.she was not interested in a relationship and was playing you
 
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