"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We Broke up

Fast forward to today and I'm about to Go visit her (she lives far away for the summer)

She cancels on me telling me that she has a ton of work to do and that she'd just find time to come see me instead. (she always does this. really annoying)

but anyway I'm cool with it. I told her i'm perfectly fine with not driving 4 hours. She said she feels bad, but today just isn't a good time.

I give her her work space, but now she won't stop calling me. I haven't answered yet because i'm doing yardwork now. I text her that i was busy

but now she's accusing me of ignoring her because i can't be too busy. not if i was about to drive to go see her

I guess means i don't have a life. I simply couldn't be doing anything else since i changed plans with her

she's being totally ridiculous. I am not ignoring her, but she seems to think i am. I thought she was busy? WTF?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who cares what she thinks. Move on.
 
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Raikojo17 said:
We Broke up

Fast forward to today and I'm about to Go visit her (she lives far away for the summer)

She cancels on me telling me that she has a ton of work to do and that she'd just find time to come see me instead. (she always does this. really annoying)

but anyway I'm cool with it. I told her i'm perfectly fine with not driving 4 hours. She said she feels bad, but today just isn't a good time.

I give her her work space, but now she won't stop calling me. I haven't answered yet because i'm doing yardwork now. I text her that i was busy

but now she's accusing me of ignoring her because i can't be too busy. not if i was about to drive to go see her

I guess means i don't have a life. I simply couldn't be doing anything else since i changed plans with her

she's being totally ridiculous. I am not ignoring her, but she seems to think i am. I thought she was busy? WTF?
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i must be in a mood today...WTF?!

SERIOUSLY?

you guys broke up for a reason. why in the world are you driving FOUR HOURS to get some... of anything?

you need other options.. preferably IN COUNTY.. and NOT AN EX
 
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yup............YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER...........SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON...........in the history of breakups VERY FEW ever workout when reuniting.

like a band aid thats been on way too long.............ITS GONNA HURT FOR A BIT BUT U NEED TO RIP IT OFF AND BE DONE with her.
 
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Dude, don't stay in contact with your ex. She's only tooling you around in the absence of another man; as soon as she finds one, "Raikojo who?" Quit thriving on ex drama like a chick and move on with your life.

And the "work" excuse is bogus as fukk - a girl telling you she's "too busy working" is like you telling her "I'm washing my hair that night."

That dog don't hunt.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why are you in contact with her? Are you HOPING for reunite?
 
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Dude just cut it off why in the **** are you wasting your time?

.....A successful relationship should not have to go through a break up. My parents never broke up inbetween their relationship before marriage and that is how it should be man.
 
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Remember the attention you can give is your currency. There is absolutely no reason to pay any attention to this ex. Please quit letting her do this to you and get real.
 
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amoka said:
Why are you in contact with her? Are you HOPING for reunite?
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Cuz we still friends, yo

we were always cool. even before we started dating. I'm currently dating 3 other women right now. so I don't really care for a reunite. if she wants to go, she can go. I'm not gonna cry over her or chase her
 
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raikojo17 your a bit.ch
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Raikojo17 said:
I don't really care for a reunite
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The topic title is "ex girlfriend is pissing me off!!!" and now you say you don't care. It's okay to admit it, even if it's an ego thing: you do care. You care enough to get worked up over it.
 
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Look, you have to forget about her. Seems she has the power here. Four hours man? You are driving FOUR HOURS to see her? If she is the one bugging you with phonecalls and the like, tell her when you are free and let her know that she can drop by. She needs to come to you... and if she doesn't, who cares? You've moved on already.
 
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DJ Snake Eyes said:
Look, you have to forget about her. Seems she has the power here. Four hours man? You are driving FOUR HOURS to see her? If she is the one bugging you with phonecalls and the like, tell her when you are free and let her know that she can drop by. She needs to come to you... and if she doesn't, who cares? You've moved on already.
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exactly, why he is a d1ck taking b1tch and is powerless
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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