SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hi Guys
I haven't posted here in probably a year or two, I just thought I would share this experience I had with an ex girlfriend.
I'm going to cut this short as possible because I could go on for hours about this women and all her nonsense, I've posted tons of stories looking for help with her etc.
Backstory: We were on and off, I used to love this chick to death. Every time we got back together she would break up with me, I was very inexperienced at the time, I would be heart broken and pining for months to up to a year and we would get back together the cycle would repeat itself.
So the final time she broke up with me she got with another guy, after about two years they broke up.
Here is how the story unfolded and how I gained a little self respect back:
(The only way I was able to pull this off is probably because I am now with a much hotter and more loyal girl, so my emotions were completely dead to my ex)
- We started texting again, she was quite cold with me but I learned a lot in two years and managed to get her to warm up to me.
- She requested a meet up for coffee, so I obliged her.
- We met up, and we started chatting about our lives and whatever, and she was talking about how she wandered how it would be together if we were together now, and going on about wanting a baby (Insinuating she would want me to be the farther) anyway just general desperate things, a total turn off, inside I was dying of laughter and some kind of sick self fulfillment. She probably thought I was going to jump at the chance to be with her or something like before...
- Anyway come the weekend she requests to go on a date or something along those line, I didn't even reply to her.
Long story short It felt really good rejecting her and gaining a ton of self respect back.
I probably could taken this a lot further like sleeping with her and just leaving her hi and dry, that would have really messed her up lol, but I did and do have a sense of loyalty to my current girlfriend so that was not on the cards.
Anyways, since last I posted my life has improved 10 fold and is only getting better, so thanks I'd like to think some of the posts on here have helped contribute to that a little bit.
I haven't posted here in probably a year or two, I just thought I would share this experience I had with an ex girlfriend.
I'm going to cut this short as possible because I could go on for hours about this women and all her nonsense, I've posted tons of stories looking for help with her etc.
Backstory: We were on and off, I used to love this chick to death. Every time we got back together she would break up with me, I was very inexperienced at the time, I would be heart broken and pining for months to up to a year and we would get back together the cycle would repeat itself.
So the final time she broke up with me she got with another guy, after about two years they broke up.
Here is how the story unfolded and how I gained a little self respect back:
(The only way I was able to pull this off is probably because I am now with a much hotter and more loyal girl, so my emotions were completely dead to my ex)
- We started texting again, she was quite cold with me but I learned a lot in two years and managed to get her to warm up to me.
- She requested a meet up for coffee, so I obliged her.
- We met up, and we started chatting about our lives and whatever, and she was talking about how she wandered how it would be together if we were together now, and going on about wanting a baby (Insinuating she would want me to be the farther) anyway just general desperate things, a total turn off, inside I was dying of laughter and some kind of sick self fulfillment. She probably thought I was going to jump at the chance to be with her or something like before...
- Anyway come the weekend she requests to go on a date or something along those line, I didn't even reply to her.
Long story short It felt really good rejecting her and gaining a ton of self respect back.
I probably could taken this a lot further like sleeping with her and just leaving her hi and dry, that would have really messed her up lol, but I did and do have a sense of loyalty to my current girlfriend so that was not on the cards.
Anyways, since last I posted my life has improved 10 fold and is only getting better, so thanks I'd like to think some of the posts on here have helped contribute to that a little bit.
