an ex and i have started seeing each other again (havent done anything more than kiss though) pretty much everytime we see each other is when i go round her house but usually her family are home so we cant do a great deal and i havent tried to. so mutual feeling up and some kissing is how far its gone.
she is showing high IL (txting me alot, inviting me to do stuff, cancels plans to see me etc etc) so in my drunken state on new years when seh called me after midnight (she was home sick) i asked her straight out if she wanted us to get together (not very smooth i know) anyway she wouldnt give a proper answerand i said if its no then say no and she wouldnt.
she refused to say no but when i pushed it kept changing the subject... then last night i went round her house but she was still sick so nothing happened but we still had a good time.
so im not sure how to play it, im not gonna ask her again i was planning to wait until she is well again and then go round her house and just go for it. if she responds then hey, thats a ood enough answer for me.
dont worry though guys i dont have oneitis for her, im actively djing 3 other girls (i say active as these have shown high IL and i wouldnt mind banging them) but i really want to see if i can get with this girl because shes THE ex, and when i was with her was the height of my AFC days and i got burned.
the only good thing i did in that relationship was end it myself and not talk to her for a year. now im talking to her again and well lets just see how things go, she has definitely noticed the change in me and now its her calling me.
anyway the point of this post? any advice you'd give on how to get her to respond in a good way!
she is showing high IL (txting me alot, inviting me to do stuff, cancels plans to see me etc etc) so in my drunken state on new years when seh called me after midnight (she was home sick) i asked her straight out if she wanted us to get together (not very smooth i know) anyway she wouldnt give a proper answerand i said if its no then say no and she wouldnt.
she refused to say no but when i pushed it kept changing the subject... then last night i went round her house but she was still sick so nothing happened but we still had a good time.
so im not sure how to play it, im not gonna ask her again i was planning to wait until she is well again and then go round her house and just go for it. if she responds then hey, thats a ood enough answer for me.
dont worry though guys i dont have oneitis for her, im actively djing 3 other girls (i say active as these have shown high IL and i wouldnt mind banging them) but i really want to see if i can get with this girl because shes THE ex, and when i was with her was the height of my AFC days and i got burned.
the only good thing i did in that relationship was end it myself and not talk to her for a year. now im talking to her again and well lets just see how things go, she has definitely noticed the change in me and now its her calling me.
anyway the point of this post? any advice you'd give on how to get her to respond in a good way!