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Master Don Juan
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Maybe he just really dislikes your football teamFriends and lovers of friends will see your posts (about GD football of all things)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maybe he just really dislikes your football teamFriends and lovers of friends will see your posts (about GD football of all things)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm sure you could introduce her to any of the handsome, successful, and charming Texans here on Sosuave. How about it, @Igetit! ? I heard @bigneil was going off about how desperately he wants some Sosuave eskimo brothers and for a Sosuaver to raise his eskimo sonI emailed her a heads up and she wrote back and said I should ignore him (that I was correct though).
She said he doesn't know it yet, but they are getting a divorce. I was so sad to hear that. I asked her to reconsider her decision for the child's sake, but another single mom is entering the dating market. This was a man who she was head over heels with in 2012, and he was the reason she vanished from my life after 6 months, only to return. I suppose I knew from the fact she cheated on him with me that she didn't love him, but it's still really sad to think that marriage with a beautiful woman seems impossible.
She wrote to me today "He is really emotional right now".The dude has an idea Sh!t is going south and clearly can't accept/handle it!
Gents: the moment you need to check your woman's phone is the moment your relationship is Done!
Well there u have it. This guy's life is now ruined, child support and maybe alimony on top of his wife bailing on him and now not having his kid daily.I emailed her a heads up and she wrote back and said I should ignore him (that I was correct though).
She said he doesn't know it yet, but they are getting a divorce. I was so sad to hear that. I asked her to reconsider her decision for the child's sake, but another single mom is entering the dating market. This was a man who she was head over heels with in 2012, and he was the reason she vanished from my life after 6 months, only to return. I suppose I knew from the fact she cheated on him with me that she didn't love him, but it's still really sad to think that marriage with a beautiful woman seems impossible.
Well ya.She wrote to me today "He is really emotional right now".
Last week I had to apologize to my woman for my 30 seconds of being emotional.
Does anyone else suspect that women (or perhaps the Feminists) have decided to blacklist the smallest display of male emotion to the point where men are now expected to be inhuman? It's to the point where if an otherwise perfect specimen of a male should dare to act emotional for one second per year (even if he may have just watched his cat get run over, his job outsourced and/or his mom have surgery) that his women will lose all interest spontaneously, permanently. I think this is part of their "I only like 1 in 64,000 men" strategy of hyper-hypergamy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Back in the 1930's, I imagine men would dream about being with a woman who was taken. Now, he gets to have her anyway, and she cheats on him too. Not sure which is worse. I'll take the experience and the loss over neither.Well there u have it. This guy's life is now ruined, child support and maybe alimony on top of his wife bailing on him and now not having his kid daily.
Good for u for pleading with her and understandable for him to be out of sorts.
Everyone here is a heartless tough guy but a parent knows the soul crushing pain of losing their daily life with their kid and the thought of some stranger taking over when he is not there.
This single mom doesn't realize she may be ruining 3 lives.
Damn women.
Certainly with the feminists. I was dating a girl when my family dog of 16 years died. I told her via text with a simple 'gutted' at the end. The response I got was 'Well, she had a good run, I don't understand why you're upset'. This girl classified herself as a 'feminist'. The 1.5-year relationship ended that weekend!She wrote to me today "He is really emotional right now".
Last week I had to apologize to my woman for my 30 seconds of being emotional.
Does anyone else suspect that women (or perhaps the Feminists) have decided to blacklist the smallest display of male emotion to the point where men are now expected to be inhuman? It's to the point where if an otherwise perfect specimen of a male should dare to act emotional for one second per year (even if he may have just watched his cat get run over, his job outsourced and/or his mom have surgery) that his women will lose all interest spontaneously, permanently. I think this is part of their "I only like 1 in 64,000 men" strategy of hyper-hypergamy.
I'm with you here. If a woman is going to hold it against a guy for being affected by the loss of a family pet of 16 years, she can go take a flying leap.I was dating a girl when my family dog of 16 years died. I told her via text with a simple 'gutted' at the end. The response I got was 'Well, she had a good run, I don't understand why you're upset'. This girl classified herself as a 'feminist'. The 1.5-year relationship ended that weekend!