"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ex-GF's Husband Hijacked her FB?

zekko

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Friends and lovers of friends will see your posts (about GD football of all things)
Maybe he just really dislikes your football team :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I emailed her a heads up and she wrote back and said I should ignore him (that I was correct though).

She said he doesn't know it yet, but they are getting a divorce. I was so sad to hear that. I asked her to reconsider her decision for the child's sake, but another single mom is entering the dating market. This was a man who she was head over heels with in 2012, and he was the reason she vanished from my life after 6 months, only to return. I suppose I knew from the fact she cheated on him with me that she didn't love him, but it's still really sad to think that marriage with a beautiful woman seems impossible.
I'm sure you could introduce her to any of the handsome, successful, and charming Texans here on Sosuave. How about it, @Igetit! ? I heard @bigneil was going off about how desperately he wants some Sosuave eskimo brothers and for a Sosuaver to raise his eskimo son :p:p:p
 

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The dude has an idea Sh!t is going south and clearly can't accept/handle it!

Gents: the moment you need to check your woman's phone is the moment your relationship is Done!
She wrote to me today "He is really emotional right now".

Last week I had to apologize to my woman for my 30 seconds of being emotional.

Does anyone else suspect that women (or perhaps the Feminists) have decided to blacklist the smallest display of male emotion to the point where men are now expected to be inhuman? It's to the point where if an otherwise perfect specimen of a male should dare to act emotional for one second per year (even if he may have just watched his cat get run over, his job outsourced and/or his mom have surgery) that his women will lose all interest spontaneously, permanently. I think this is part of their "I only like 1 in 64,000 men" strategy of hyper-hypergamy.
 

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I emailed her a heads up and she wrote back and said I should ignore him (that I was correct though).

She said he doesn't know it yet, but they are getting a divorce. I was so sad to hear that. I asked her to reconsider her decision for the child's sake, but another single mom is entering the dating market. This was a man who she was head over heels with in 2012, and he was the reason she vanished from my life after 6 months, only to return. I suppose I knew from the fact she cheated on him with me that she didn't love him, but it's still really sad to think that marriage with a beautiful woman seems impossible.
Well there u have it. This guy's life is now ruined, child support and maybe alimony on top of his wife bailing on him and now not having his kid daily.
Good for u for pleading with her and understandable for him to be out of sorts.

Everyone here is a heartless tough guy but a parent knows the soul crushing pain of losing their daily life with their kid and the thought of some stranger taking over when he is not there.

This single mom doesn't realize she may be ruining 3 lives.

Damn women.
 

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She wrote to me today "He is really emotional right now".

Last week I had to apologize to my woman for my 30 seconds of being emotional.

Does anyone else suspect that women (or perhaps the Feminists) have decided to blacklist the smallest display of male emotion to the point where men are now expected to be inhuman? It's to the point where if an otherwise perfect specimen of a male should dare to act emotional for one second per year (even if he may have just watched his cat get run over, his job outsourced and/or his mom have surgery) that his women will lose all interest spontaneously, permanently. I think this is part of their "I only like 1 in 64,000 men" strategy of hyper-hypergamy.
Well ya.
See this shows these women just dont get it. If they dont control out every move and emotion like robots and read their minds they are unhappy and bail.
Nothing is ever enough or good enough.

What i would do to be born in the 20- 30s.

Or the wild West.
Today's society has ruined women
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well there u have it. This guy's life is now ruined, child support and maybe alimony on top of his wife bailing on him and now not having his kid daily.
Good for u for pleading with her and understandable for him to be out of sorts.

Everyone here is a heartless tough guy but a parent knows the soul crushing pain of losing their daily life with their kid and the thought of some stranger taking over when he is not there.

This single mom doesn't realize she may be ruining 3 lives.

Damn women.
Back in the 1930's, I imagine men would dream about being with a woman who was taken. Now, he gets to have her anyway, and she cheats on him too. Not sure which is worse. I'll take the experience and the loss over neither.

I wrote to her 6 months ago and gave her Stephan Molyneux's video about how bad single moms are, how it's the single biggest prediction of child failure. I told her she had to stay with him forever. Look at him telling me off and her dumping him anyway. I won't do it. This was the last straw. I won't get married.
 

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She wrote to me today "He is really emotional right now".

Last week I had to apologize to my woman for my 30 seconds of being emotional.

Does anyone else suspect that women (or perhaps the Feminists) have decided to blacklist the smallest display of male emotion to the point where men are now expected to be inhuman? It's to the point where if an otherwise perfect specimen of a male should dare to act emotional for one second per year (even if he may have just watched his cat get run over, his job outsourced and/or his mom have surgery) that his women will lose all interest spontaneously, permanently. I think this is part of their "I only like 1 in 64,000 men" strategy of hyper-hypergamy.
Certainly with the feminists. I was dating a girl when my family dog of 16 years died. I told her via text with a simple 'gutted' at the end. The response I got was 'Well, she had a good run, I don't understand why you're upset'. This girl classified herself as a 'feminist'. The 1.5-year relationship ended that weekend!

The AFC vomits his emotions everywhere, inappropriately to great failure. Even more so now given the way society is.

A DJ should have inner control of his emotions and they should be appropriate to the event. Women can construe inappropriate displays of emotion as 'weak' behavior.
 

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I was dating a girl when my family dog of 16 years died. I told her via text with a simple 'gutted' at the end. The response I got was 'Well, she had a good run, I don't understand why you're upset'. This girl classified herself as a 'feminist'. The 1.5-year relationship ended that weekend!
I'm with you here. If a woman is going to hold it against a guy for being affected by the loss of a family pet of 16 years, she can go take a flying leap.
 

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wtf are you doing talking to her?dont act like you are 'just friends.'

You arent. You hope that maybe one day she gives you the gushy gushy. Good that the husband sent you that text. I would have got your number and firmly told you to stop texting her.

Thats not your girl no more, lay off and stay away.

I find it funny how dudes on here call a woman a ***** for talking to a man other than their BF and make countless threads needing 'help' but when you are participating in the same behavior you hate so much, you cant understand what the problem is.
 
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