"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ex gf's friend wants to go out

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me and my ex gf broke up because she had an abortion and left for London for the summer. she still calls me and stuff...im hoping with the time apart we will get back together but thats wishful hoping and im moving on. well a while ago i hooked up one of my friends with one of her friends ("sue") now "sue" broke up with my friend and now telling me that she always liked me and want to hook up. Is that alot of drama waiting to happen or should i just go ahead and beat that because i haven't had any since the break up lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get with the friend since she's a sure thing.

You don't know if your ex will ever come back to ya so no sense in waiting around.
 
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Like I said before.. All pu$$y isn't good pu$$y. This seems like a very bad idea. It has nothing to do with your ex. If it was just you sexing your ex's friend, then whipty do. Go all out!!

But this includes your friend. Bro's before Ho's. If he's not that good of a friend, and you guys were never close then maybe. Either way, with him in the picture, I don't see this coming out in a good light.
 
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Wow, man. That's gotta be the most repulsive, disgusting and downright heinous thing you could do.........Way to go man!:up:

Hit that like a fastball to B. Bonds!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah....i dont think i can do that to him again. last time i did something like that he was pissed off at me for a few weeks. Beginning of the year I was making out (at the club in front of him....bad mistake) and beat this girl he was trying to get with for a few months. I thought it was fair game because he was in the "friends zone".

yeah, i dont think its worth the drama. She isn't that fine anyway.
 
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What are you waiting for. Get off your computer and get her over tonight. Green light go.
 
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