"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ex gf's friend wants to go out

BlackDragon

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me and my ex gf broke up because she had an abortion and left for London for the summer. she still calls me and stuff...im hoping with the time apart we will get back together but thats wishful hoping and im moving on. well a while ago i hooked up one of my friends with one of her friends ("sue") now "sue" broke up with my friend and now telling me that she always liked me and want to hook up. Is that alot of drama waiting to happen or should i just go ahead and beat that because i haven't had any since the break up lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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Get with the friend since she's a sure thing.

You don't know if your ex will ever come back to ya so no sense in waiting around.
 

kdnash82

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Like I said before.. All pu$$y isn't good pu$$y. This seems like a very bad idea. It has nothing to do with your ex. If it was just you sexing your ex's friend, then whipty do. Go all out!!

But this includes your friend. Bro's before Ho's. If he's not that good of a friend, and you guys were never close then maybe. Either way, with him in the picture, I don't see this coming out in a good light.
 

Rex Man

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Wow, man. That's gotta be the most repulsive, disgusting and downright heinous thing you could do.........Way to go man!:up:

Hit that like a fastball to B. Bonds!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BlackDragon

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yeah....i dont think i can do that to him again. last time i did something like that he was pissed off at me for a few weeks. Beginning of the year I was making out (at the club in front of him....bad mistake) and beat this girl he was trying to get with for a few months. I thought it was fair game because he was in the "friends zone".

yeah, i dont think its worth the drama. She isn't that fine anyway.
 

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What are you waiting for. Get off your computer and get her over tonight. Green light go.
 
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