Ex-GF

[onemorerobot]

My ex and I have been friends for a while now; it's going on two years. Anyway, I asked her the other day what her new year's resolution was. She says, "It's a secret." Then she asks me what mine is. I tell her that I'm not telling until she tells me hers. She does not comply. So I just let it go, until last night as I was about to go to bed. I assumed she was playing the first time and thought she might actually tell me. Of course, she doesn't. She tells me she can't tell me. This frustrates me to no end. Why wouldn't she be able to tell me something like that? I kind of prodded a little bit, but she wouldn't budge, so I just said **** it. What do you do in a situation like this? Do you just act like you couldn't care less? I've never given her any reason not to trust me.

 

[pagemaster]

Why wouldn't she be able to tell me something like that?

Because she knows you still care for her....

 

[flexion_]

You drop it and never bring it up again. You shouldn't care if she has secrets - this is an ex-GF and she has no obligation to do anything you want.

 

[ryannath]

It's probably really nothing anyway, and if it something, I bet it's not important. I think she is just playing with you and she loves it that you can't handle it.

 

[DJDamage]

. What do you do in a situation like this? Do you just act like you couldn't care less?

I wouldn't get into this situation in the first place. Lets face it, this friendship with the EX is bull$hit. I am guessing she dumped you and you took the "Lets just be friends" bait but in actuality you still want to fvck her.

But instead of moving on you decided (or rather she decided) to put "specific boundries" on the relationship which mostley involves you not being able to touch her or get too close to her, while still hoping that some day you will. She on the other hand loves the fact that you can provide her with constant attention and doesn't need to screw you and can go fvck someone else. Yep you are like a dog tied to a leash with a muzzle on and you are mad!

Be free and take away the leash and muzzle she placed on you and end this experiment and you won't have to act like that and think like that.

 

[Jay Jay]

DJ Damage said it all.

Why give a **** about what her NYR is?

JJ

 

[onemorerobot]

I understand what everyone here is saying, but her nyr isn't really the point. It was just a simple, honest question that she didn't want to answer for some reason.

 

[DJDamage]

I understand what everyone here is saying, but her nyr isn't really the point. It was just a simple, honest question that she didn't want to answer for some reason.

Why do you care so much then?

Lets say your NYR was to fvck as many girls as possible in 2007. Would you tell her that?? I think you got your answer.

Most chicks NYR is to find love and for her it ain't you, so why should she tell you?? it will only hurt you, and after all she needs you around for attention so she can have her cake and eat it too.