So me and my ex started talking again really. All started when i gave her a copy of my bands demo she liked it. Well wierd thing is i still like her. I was talking to her on AIM, and said this, because i really dont give a **** for her friendship. She said she didnt have feelings for me anymore. So i said ok ill leave you be then. Then shes like wait and blah blah blah. Then out of no where almost she says, if i get her flowers and send them annonymousely to her in class on v-day.(we in HS). She will leave her bf and try with me again.....wtf is this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ex gf=wtf?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ShizamDaMan
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Let me guess, she dumped you?
Don't send her sh*t on Valentine's Day. You two had your chance together. Concentrate on finding a better girl. It sounds like she's jerking you around.
Don't send her sh*t on Valentine's Day. You two had your chance together. Concentrate on finding a better girl. It sounds like she's jerking you around.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
This has to be the dumbest setup I've ever seen... Who will be the Fall Guy???
My money's on you Swede!!!
Prove me wrong
My money's on you Swede!!!
Prove me wrong
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
sounds like what i was involved in around this time last year....except i was fcuking some girl and my ex wanted me back since she was jealous 
anyways i faltered and went running back to exy since i watned to screw her and i ended up getting hurt in the process
my advice is this my friend.....................
RUN B*TCH RUN! There's a reason why she's an EX, there's a reason why you dumped her also! Dont fall into this pitfall like i did!
And dont get her flowers.... save the cash for yourself... if she asks for flowers again pick some outta her garden and give them to her! LOL Grass always does the trick!
- Nightspark!
anyways i faltered and went running back to exy since i watned to screw her and i ended up getting hurt in the process
my advice is this my friend.....................
RUN B*TCH RUN! There's a reason why she's an EX, there's a reason why you dumped her also! Dont fall into this pitfall like i did!
And dont get her flowers.... save the cash for yourself... if she asks for flowers again pick some outta her garden and give them to her! LOL Grass always does the trick!
- Nightspark!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cave dweller
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time..........
Hey,
Don't waste your time being 'jerked around' by an Ex.
Move on...........
cave dweller
Hey,
Don't waste your time being 'jerked around' by an Ex.
Move on...........
cave dweller
DeathDealer
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An ex, is an EX for a reason. I can already predict you'll get dumped by her within a couple a weeks. Save yourself some emotional grief and move on, SERIOUSLY.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
This girl obviously likes the attention and drama she see's on day time television. Unfortunately she's not the only one of her kind. Typically you want to wash your hands of a situation like this one.
Since this is a highschool and obviously the drama involved here is superficial i recommend fighting fire with fire. Find one of her cute friends and try to salvage this disiaster my young friend. Go to her and explain your feelings to her in the hopes of finding awnsers. She'll think you dedication is sweet and desireable and thus become attracted to you. I would assume that she would then try to cease you for herself if you play your cards right.
Since this is a highschool and obviously the drama involved here is superficial i recommend fighting fire with fire. Find one of her cute friends and try to salvage this disiaster my young friend. Go to her and explain your feelings to her in the hopes of finding awnsers. She'll think you dedication is sweet and desireable and thus become attracted to you. I would assume that she would then try to cease you for herself if you play your cards right.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yeah your right bro. I talked to her tonight, and said i wouldnt get them for her. Because shes not my gf. So she started acting "sad". But then even *****y in a way. Saying how shes used to me being a disapointment or some crap. And how i was a ****ty bf. Then i just said to her, if you were my gf id buy them for you, but your with someoen else so im sorry. Then she apolgoized or some crap then i think blocked me on aim or just signed off.