Ex GF is back in life & now open for 3somes - Is this is **** test?

[julez]

I have recently hooked up with the ex, who most of you guys gave me amazing advice for. Now she is telling me that she is very open to exploring any sexual fantasies I may have including watching & helping me sleep with my other female friends. Is this another **** test from her? If not, how do I go about making this happen without losing the recently gained control & interest I have been getting from her? Keeping in mind that chick loves the challenge and the chase.

Ignoring her and being verbally abusive got her turned on again & I have had the craziest, freakiest sex with her everyday last week (video recorded & all 8). She likes the fact that now I am very controlling, assertive, aggressive, & put her down on anything I don't agree with - which is a change from last year where I just ignored her & acted like I didn't care about her. That approach worked in the beginning to get her attention but I have to come to realize that she relates to emotional outbursts as care & concern for her - talk about messed up. :shock:

She mentioned that she has seen a few *******s in the last few months to "get over me" but that backfired by her realizing just how different I was. blah, blah, blah. She went so far as gave me the key to her apartment yesterday. I suspect that in a few months she will be back to her old BS, unless I find a way to keep her in check. I'm not trying to be a pimp here, but I seems to me that she is attracted to guys who treat her like a crap.

What do you guys think

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Get a threesome and some crazy sex then hit the quick release.

Messing with an ex, and especially being attached to the outcome enough to post on SS about her, is a step backwards for you. Forget about all this talk about how dominant and aggressive you are, it's false. You're fronting, and now you're going back and forth in your head about what you should do with her. Get the sex and move on towards some real development.

 

[Kirro]

Get a threesome and some crazy sex then hit the quick release.

Messing with an ex, and especially being attached to the outcome enough to post on SS about her, is a step backwards for you. Forget about all this talk about how dominant and aggressive you are, it's false. You're fronting, and now you're going back and forth in your head about what you should do with her. Get the sex and move on towards some real development.

I agree here. I'd go further to say she is firmly in control of you. This is clever ploy on her part to lift you up & then crash you back to earth like a meteor. Find some other chicks & cut her out of your life now, keep messing with this ex & you may very well regret.

 

[SandHawk]

Do her up the pooper, have a threesome, have her lick your cinnamon ring. Just do all the crazy **** you ever wanted to do but thought most girls wouldn't be up for. And then dump her ass.

 

[WC2]

Get a threesome and some crazy sex then hit the quick release.

Messing with an ex, and especially being attached to the outcome enough to post on SS about her, is a step backwards for you. Forget about all this talk about how dominant and aggressive you are, it's false. You're fronting, and now you're going back and forth in your head about what you should do with her. Get the sex and move on towards some real development.

Exactly. Not only are you fronting, but she's fronting by making you think that you have control over her now.

Trust me, I dealt with a crazy ex for 2 1/2 years..

They'll start letting you control them so you start to feel comfortable, and just as you do, they decide to take control and end things on their terms. Usually they just want closure on THEIR terms.

As for the threesome thing.. it could be a shyt test. Maybe not. Who knows.

Either way I agree wholeheartedly with Julius that you're taking a step in the wrong direction. Threesomes are great and everything, but in the long run it's not worth it especially if there is some risk of reverting back to the EX.

Just drop her and let it go.

 

[scorpio1138]

I would keep fvcking her BUT see and go after other women at the same time.
Make her fvck buddy. Nothing more. Get as much as you can, then move on if she starts getting biatchy.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I think you're doing well; good job. As long as she continues to make you happy, then go with that.

btw, in regard to threesomes, she has to have interest in other girls herself, or else it is all just a charade. That is going to be easy to determine.