"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have recently hooked up with the ex, who most of you guys gave me amazing advice for. Now she is telling me that she is very open to exploring any sexual fantasies I may have including watching & helping me sleep with my other female friends. Is this another **** test from her? If not, how do I go about making this happen without losing the recently gained control & interest I have been getting from her? Keeping in mind that chick loves the challenge and the chase.

Ignoring her and being verbally abusive got her turned on again & I have had the craziest, freakiest sex with her everyday last week (video recorded & all 8). She likes the fact that now I am very controlling, assertive, aggressive, & put her down on anything I don't agree with - which is a change from last year where I just ignored her & acted like I didn't care about her. That approach worked in the beginning to get her attention but I have to come to realize that she relates to emotional outbursts as care & concern for her - talk about messed up. :shock:

She mentioned that she has seen a few *******s in the last few months to "get over me" but that backfired by her realizing just how different I was. blah, blah, blah. She went so far as gave me the key to her apartment yesterday. I suspect that in a few months she will be back to her old BS, unless I find a way to keep her in check. I'm not trying to be a pimp here, but I seems to me that she is attracted to guys who treat her like a crap.

What do you guys think
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get a threesome and some crazy sex then hit the quick release.

Messing with an ex, and especially being attached to the outcome enough to post on SS about her, is a step backwards for you. Forget about all this talk about how dominant and aggressive you are, it's false. You're fronting, and now you're going back and forth in your head about what you should do with her. Get the sex and move on towards some real development.
 
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Julius_Seizeher said:
Get a threesome and some crazy sex then hit the quick release.

Messing with an ex, and especially being attached to the outcome enough to post on SS about her, is a step backwards for you. Forget about all this talk about how dominant and aggressive you are, it's false. You're fronting, and now you're going back and forth in your head about what you should do with her. Get the sex and move on towards some real development.
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I agree here. I'd go further to say she is firmly in control of you. This is clever ploy on her part to lift you up & then crash you back to earth like a meteor. Find some other chicks & cut her out of your life now, keep messing with this ex & you may very well regret.
 
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Do her up the pooper, have a threesome, have her lick your cinnamon ring. Just do all the crazy **** you ever wanted to do but thought most girls wouldn't be up for. And then dump her ass.
 
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Julius_Seizeher said:
Get a threesome and some crazy sex then hit the quick release.

Messing with an ex, and especially being attached to the outcome enough to post on SS about her, is a step backwards for you. Forget about all this talk about how dominant and aggressive you are, it's false. You're fronting, and now you're going back and forth in your head about what you should do with her. Get the sex and move on towards some real development.
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Exactly. Not only are you fronting, but she's fronting by making you think that you have control over her now.

Trust me, I dealt with a crazy ex for 2 1/2 years..

They'll start letting you control them so you start to feel comfortable, and just as you do, they decide to take control and end things on their terms. Usually they just want closure on THEIR terms.

As for the threesome thing.. it could be a shyt test. Maybe not. Who knows.

Either way I agree wholeheartedly with Julius that you're taking a step in the wrong direction. Threesomes are great and everything, but in the long run it's not worth it especially if there is some risk of reverting back to the EX.

Just drop her and let it go.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would keep fvcking her BUT see and go after other women at the same time.
Make her fvck buddy. Nothing more. Get as much as you can, then move on if she starts getting biatchy.
 
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I think you're doing well; good job. As long as she continues to make you happy, then go with that.

btw, in regard to threesomes, she has to have interest in other girls herself, or else it is all just a charade. That is going to be easy to determine.
 
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