It’s already been said a million times but if you truly loved yourself, you wouldn’t have allowed her behavior.She wa supposed to come over that night then changed her mind and texting me saying she needs basically saying I don't love you goodbye then blocked my number. I got 0 word in and to this day I havent seen her. She would yell at me and cuss as me for little to nothing everything i did annoyed her. I gave this ***** everything I had just to make her happy. Her dad abandoned the family at a young age and now is back in her life. Her mom is a super immature manipulative person who talks bad about her even though she is the one paying for the moms place to live car everything. Her emotions were extremely unstable. She would get drunk and out of ****in nowhere would randomly hate me. The next morning she loved me.... I looked it up and I even had to talk to a psychiatrist about it. It really ****ed me up but I'm 99% sure she had borderline personality disorder. Even the psychiatrist confirmed. After she left me over text she got on social media posting memes as if I left her constantly. Making me look bad then told me later on she didnt love me and I was boring. Now if my friends see her she avoids everyone I know. Moral of the story if it seems to good to be true it is. In the beginning she said she loved me 3 weeks in would stare at me was weird in bed no emotion etc etc. Bizarre. Im.doing good now I have a few plates. I dont really miss her as I miss the companionship and the way she made me feel when she was loving. Anyone have similar stories with a bpd woman?
The fact that you don’t love yourself manifested in someone like her reflecting back to you your own lack of self love.
She reflected back to you how you truly felt about yourself.
It’s 150% your fault and responsibility. The only way to change your future is to become a better man.
The woman that you attract will always see you the way YOU see you.
The BPD’s and the self loathing pushovers always find each other. They are a perfect match made in hell.
Coming here to complain about how you allowed someone to treat you like sh1t for two years is not going to earn you any sympathy points.
It will just make you look pathetic.
There is nothing out there that someone can give you that you can’t give yourself. Until you realize this, you will never find a good woman.
There is no such thing in this universe as a self loving guy being in a relationship with a BPD woman spanning years.
Leave the sympathy card at home gentlemen. We are not your mothers.
We can only point you to the right direction. And it’s always the same direction. Towards self love.