"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ex DJ turned AFC needing help..

yellowpark

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alright I gotta give some backgroun on this first.. my on and off GF of 4 months had sex with one of my buddies the night after we broke up, and didnt tell me.. I found out from one of my buddies(one of her ex's. said she did it because she was "angry" though she was emotional therefore very easy to ****) and she did this about a month ago and never told me, she said after a few seconds she couldnt do it because she kept thinking about me , and she left.. but I donno if its true... I forget how I used to be she turned me into a chump I really dont know waht to do , I am pretty immature but I used to be able to handle these kind of thigns and im completely lost... any type of advice would be greatly appreciated.. I can have this ***** back if Iwant. but if I do that I would only **** her and break her feelings into a trillion peices, which I dont have a problem doing.. should I drop her..? im ****ing pissed off as hell. I have a girl on lock right now that Icould date so rebound wouldnt be a problem...help..:confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kdnash82

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KontrollerX said:
Fvck her and chuck her.

You'll feel better then.
Absolutely. The fact that she did or didn't do your buddy will remain in the back of your head for life.
 

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should I **** her once then chuck the beitch? or just keep banging her, not care about her, treat her like **** n dump her in the future... I like getting piece so maybe the latter?
 

KontrollerX

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Yeah just use her up and pretend its a relationship.

One thing to keep in mind though is to pay close attention to things so you can make sure that if she starts to pull away you sense it and can drop her ass before she drops you and in that way have total victory.

She'll never forget you then and who knows maybe somewhere down the line as a result of you dropping her first you'll get to pound her guts in again!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dilberto

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Bang her, then bang all her friends too. Don't get mad......just get even.....you will no longer need to expand on this post, anymore.
 

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I'm gonna differ from the other opinions here and say be the bigger man. Nothing good could come from this. Just walk away, and remember nobody or their actions can change who YOU really are unless you allow them to, for better or worse.
 
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