"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ex DJ turned AFC needing help..

yellowpark

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alright I gotta give some backgroun on this first.. my on and off GF of 4 months had sex with one of my buddies the night after we broke up, and didnt tell me.. I found out from one of my buddies(one of her ex's. said she did it because she was "angry" though she was emotional therefore very easy to ****) and she did this about a month ago and never told me, she said after a few seconds she couldnt do it because she kept thinking about me , and she left.. but I donno if its true... I forget how I used to be she turned me into a chump I really dont know waht to do , I am pretty immature but I used to be able to handle these kind of thigns and im completely lost... any type of advice would be greatly appreciated.. I can have this ***** back if Iwant. but if I do that I would only **** her and break her feelings into a trillion peices, which I dont have a problem doing.. should I drop her..? im ****ing pissed off as hell. I have a girl on lock right now that Icould date so rebound wouldnt be a problem...help..:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kdnash82

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KontrollerX said:
Fvck her and chuck her.

You'll feel better then.
Absolutely. The fact that she did or didn't do your buddy will remain in the back of your head for life.
 

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should I **** her once then chuck the beitch? or just keep banging her, not care about her, treat her like **** n dump her in the future... I like getting piece so maybe the latter?
 

KontrollerX

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Yeah just use her up and pretend its a relationship.

One thing to keep in mind though is to pay close attention to things so you can make sure that if she starts to pull away you sense it and can drop her ass before she drops you and in that way have total victory.

She'll never forget you then and who knows maybe somewhere down the line as a result of you dropping her first you'll get to pound her guts in again!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dilberto

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Bang her, then bang all her friends too. Don't get mad......just get even.....you will no longer need to expand on this post, anymore.
 

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I'm gonna differ from the other opinions here and say be the bigger man. Nothing good could come from this. Just walk away, and remember nobody or their actions can change who YOU really are unless you allow them to, for better or worse.
 
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