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ex gf contacted a mutual person we know of Instagram to give him, her number, to give to me. (I dont have any social media). This was over the weekend and I decided to text her today (4 days later). She really seems like she went of the rails and is still "figuring out life" (shes 27 now) since i knew her at 17, took her virginity, and broke up with her for another girl.

She said she been dreaming of me lately and wanted to reach out to me to see how i was doing. We texted back and fourth and just kind caught up with some general questions. She seemed kinda hostile, bitter and short, so I cut the convo short and said "I've got to go it was nice catching up with you. Be safe", she replies with "alright. you too". (She's contacts me just to act short and rude and **** on me??...women....smh.)

My question is should I pursue?

could be an easily lap up and since quarantine things have been a little quiet. I not really anxious to date anyone right now.
 

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I agree. Unless the convo was ended with an, It’s was nice catching up with you, let me know if you want to talk again, then let it go.
 

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Judging by her behavior, it sounds like she still has some slight (or more) resentment. If the incident was ten weeks ago, this might be understandable, but it's been ten years.

My guess is that she has something to 'prove.' I suspect that the more comfortable she feels around you, the more you'll see this negative side of her.

From what I'm picking up, it sounds like you were cordial to her (which is good). It also sounds like you were wise enough to end the conversation ... once her attitude started shifting.

Tempting as it may be, I'm thinking that nothing good would come by any sort of rekindling.
 

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I agree. More than likely her life isn’t going that well for her right now, she wanted some desire validation from a man, and OP didn’t jump through any hoops during the call to her, but that’s her individual deal to get past by herself which will take some time…
 

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One shot per woman per lifetime.

The best case scenario here is she can be a one or two time occasional lay. After that her resentment will come right back. If the sex was good go for it and invite her straight to your house. If not, just pass.

Do not attempt any kind of emotional relationship with her. That ship has long sailed.
 

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She seemed kinda hostile, bitter and short, so I cut the convo short and said "I've got to go it was nice catching up with you. Be safe", she replies with "alright. you too". (She's contacts me just to act short and rude and **** on me??...women....smh.)

My question is should I pursue?
She isn't interested. This happened to me last year. Basically, if she ends up in my city for travel at some point we might hook up but there was no sexual tension or flirting in the convos. Mostly extremely negative.
 
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