Ex came over

[Fitters]

I finished work and I was getting ready for my gym session.
Someone knocks the door and it was her , I simply said hey and told her to wait downstairs. Anyways my mom comes down and they started chatting , as I was heading out my mom asks me if I wanted to speak to her & i simply said no I'm busy right now I have to head to the gym.

I come home and my mom tell me the ex submitted an apology and feels like she made the biggest mistake of her life. The new guy is the devil blah blah blah and how she wants my mom to talk to me because I ignored all her texts and calls. My mom asks me to unblock her number because apparently she has more she wants to tell me ...lmaooo yeah buddy you are staying deleted and blocked.
Reason my mom still talks to her is because her parents passed away last year & you know women and having soft spots for people in need.

Anyways moral of the story is , keep NC , get better , keep getting better and grow as a person. I now hold the power , not going back to AFC

 

[Lozboss]

You need to tell your Mum to stop- it's not healthy and she needs to pick a side (yours).

Good advice- Keep NC and NEVER go back.

thanks for the post.

 

[stevo]

You could always fcuk her and keep her as a steady plate if you know you wont lose frame and get drawn back to pursuing and being an AFC.

or

You could continue what you're doing. (this option requires more strength)