"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I finished work and I was getting ready for my gym session.
Someone knocks the door and it was her , I simply said hey and told her to wait downstairs. Anyways my mom comes down and they started chatting , as I was heading out my mom asks me if I wanted to speak to her & i simply said no I'm busy right now I have to head to the gym.

I come home and my mom tell me the ex submitted an apology and feels like she made the biggest mistake of her life. The new guy is the devil blah blah blah and how she wants my mom to talk to me because I ignored all her texts and calls. My mom asks me to unblock her number because apparently she has more she wants to tell me ...lmaooo yeah buddy you are staying deleted and blocked.
Reason my mom still talks to her is because her parents passed away last year & you know women and having soft spots for people in need.

Anyways moral of the story is , keep NC , get better , keep getting better and grow as a person. I now hold the power , not going back to AFC
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You need to tell your Mum to stop- it's not healthy and she needs to pick a side (yours).

Good advice- Keep NC and NEVER go back.

thanks for the post.
 
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You could always fcuk her and keep her as a steady plate if you know you wont lose frame and get drawn back to pursuing and being an AFC.

or

You could continue what you're doing. (this option requires more strength)
 
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