ex calls me. all of a sudden wants to hang out?

[shortstop22]

here's the story, me and this chick dated for about a year, from my senior year in high school til i graduated. The relationship started out great, then it really sizzled out in the end. She was a very immature 17 year old HB 9, so I kinda expected this type of behavior, but it no way did I tolerate it. I dumped her after she disrespected me in front of her friends, and she kept playing stupid mind games.

I've hooked up with two chicks in college, but have not had sex since I was with her. I've been extremely busy at school, working out, studying, and just hanging out and woman are still the last thing one my mind.

Last week my ex calls and asks me to hang out, we're supposed to hang out tomorrow. However I'm still debating if its even worth it taking an hour or two out of my day to go to her house and hang out. It is very possible for me to get sex, but I'm questioning if I even want to see her...

Basically I need someone that has an experience similar to mine, so I can kind of a basic idea of what the whole idea of hanging out at her house, or if she has any other motives. Thanks in advance.

 

[Unregistered]

Sounds like she wants coitus. The question is whether she also wants to get back together with you.

Think of the benefits and costs of doing this. It shouldn't be that hard of a decision.

 

[Ebach]

Since you dumped her she has unresolved issues with you. Play her own games and leash her around. She will like it, I promise. Then you can do whatever you wish.

 

[Hot Ice]

A close friend of mine just broke up with his girl.

Then she acted same as your chick. Wanted to meet and have sex.

I've heard that they did and now they don't know if they are still together and not.

He love(d) her much and all but he's like fcuk her!


I still hate the fact he even looks at her anymore. When you say it's over it should be over. Well, my friend is quite a player. My best wingman. I think he's only in for *****.


Anyway, you should trust your instinct that say dump the *****.
You've already proven she isn't worth for you, immaturity, disrespect.
Do yourself a favour and go for the college chicks.
There are many things that are running out in this world, but women ain't one of them.

 

[MightyMate]

Well she wants to come back or make fun of You. Just **** her, and dump like You used too.

 

[n00bPimp]

I don't see what you have to lose by going over her house. If she's feeling frisky, then you get some ***** (assuming you like *****). So unless you have something more important to waste that time on, i suggest you go see her, but try not fall for her again because more often than not ex's are trouble.

 

[Javelin44]

dont do it

 

[JH6]

Just hang out, whats the big deal.

Any 9 that calls me and wants to 'hang out', yep they can come over.

Just keep your other options open with other girls, this one is just another notch in your bedpost.

I hangout with my ex every few weeks, and we're very close to doing it again.

Just do it, your young.