Ex called

[Firestar786]

Ex wife called me
Did not say anything over phone
I have arranged a divorce which takes 3 months to tAke affect which was given on 12th nov
Last time we spoke was on 31st dec nye
No contact since

Why is this crazy b1tch making contact ?
What should I do about it ?

 

[Johnny1986]

Keep your distance and remain NC for now imo unless you wanna reopen some old wounds

 

[LuckyStrike88]

Stick to your point, be cool. Why didn't she say anything thats unusual?

 

[j.619]

I'm not married, nor have I ever been. That being said, you filed for divorce for a reason...

 

[VladPatton]

You do nothing. Let it always go to voice mail. She can leave a message if it's important. Keep the calls in your phone for proof, don't delete it though.

 

[Heisenberg]

1. Per Vlad, you do nothing.
2. What is with all these people who thought it was a good idea to get married in their early 20s?

 

[Firestar786]

I appreciate the comments

Got married for cultural and religious reasons

I'm confused why I should do nothing - advice ?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Second the advice here.

As has been said, you filed divorce for one or several reasons. These are the same reasons for why you do not react to her calls. If nothing note-worthy was said during the call, then nothing has changed.

The reason she's calling: she's reflecting on the situation and probably her own actions and thinks talking might resolve things, when really you should both be reflecting and attempting to become better people as results of what has happened.

Was the divorce file a knee-jerk reaction? Have you tried simple separation?

Sometimes we need take a step back in order to create a space for us to walk in to.

 

[Firestar786]

Thanks Mauser
Answered my question nicely as did others

 

[backseatjuan]

Ex wife called me
Did not say anything over phone
I have arranged a divorce which takes 3 months to tAke affect which was given on 12th nov
Last time we spoke was on 31st dec nye
No contact since

Why is this crazy b1tch making contact ?
What should I do about it ?

I mathafvcking love this post! It's brilliant! Just look at the subject, 'Ex wife called me!' and a smily face. Look at what he types, he's drunk ever since the divorce!


Ooooookie, ex wife called, yeassss! Let me post on sosuave and get advice on how to spin this plate! Return me the b1tch!!

 

[Firestar786]

Fyi bro putting A smily was a mistake