"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ex ****buddy hitting me up again

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Never contact twice. You just sit back and go about your day and life. If she contacts you later, hey whatcha doing, wanna hang out? Then, Netflix and chill bro. You do not spend one penny on her; aside from food needed for a meal at home, some wine and a Netflix subscription. Though, Hulu or Amazon Prime could work too.
Firestick is the way to go. Occasionally I need to have mine reprogrammed or updated, but it is the shyte.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Firestick is the way to go. Occasionally I need to have mine reprogrammed or updated, but it is the shyte.
That's a good option to. You can get a used one for 5 bucks on Craigslist or eBay if he's low on funds. FB marketplace is a good option too. Picked up an decent iPhone 8 for 300.
 

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I literally had a chick that I've hung out with twice give me the run around today. She sent me a "hey" and I immediately told her we should hang out this weekend. She started dancing around the invite and within 3 messages I said "no worries. Consider my generous offer of wanting to hang out with a divorced 28 yr old with a daughter withdrawn. Maybe you'll get lucky and get a better offer from another successful guy today".

She sent me 3 texts back playfully telling me that I was an A hole and I didnt even read the fb messages. I just deleted them.

Its shyte or get off the pot with me. No in between.

Save time by getting to the point. I'll bet all I own that she will respond back tomorrow.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I literally had a chick that I've hung out with twice give me the run around today. She sent me a "hey" and I immediately told her we should hang out this weekend. She started dancing around the invite and within 3 messages I said "no worries. Consider my generous offer of wanting to hang out with a divorced 28 yr old with a daughter withdrawn. Maybe you'll get lucky and get a better offer from another successful guy today".

She sent me 3 texts back playfully telling me that I was an A hole and I didnt even read the fb messages. I just deleted them.

Its shyte or get off the pot with me. No in between.

Save time by getting to the point. I'll bet all I own that she will respond back tomorrow.
Stop messing with single moms. Nothing but drama.
 

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ok so ex fvck buddy just hit me up. she looked at my snap and said what are you doing in my neck of the woods. I responded but how should i go about this? ask her again when she wants to come over and catch up?
 
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