ex boyfriend still friends on FB

[pyros]

Hi.


Do find it ok that the girl you're dating keeps her ex on her FB?
do you find it ok that she keeps pictures of them? let's say she keeps some group pictures and a few pictures just the two of them.


I mean, if Im dating a girl I do like that she still has her ex on her FB neither on whatsapp`or anthing, in my opinion she should have cut all contact, but many girls nowadays keep their exes 'around'.

How would you tell the girl you're dating that she should remove all that stuff?
Would you tell her?
what would you do?


Thanks.

 

[betheman]

she needs them on there for lots of reasons, it makes her look desirable, in the same way guys like good looking women in their FB friends. better looking the better! also, if she has a break up, she is a click of the mouse away for a fcuck, unlike most men.
FB for women is like the body armour american fotballers wear, over the years this protection has grown and grown, FB is a big social protector of women, absolutely no sh1t will ever be spoken to a woman by another woman on FB, Its all about her ego, men are there to be shot at and anything goes, i.e woman: oooh look, my new shoes = 51 likes, 25 coments ...gorgeous babe, you soo deserve them!!!
man: worked 14 hours today, too tired for a beer.......no likes, 2 comments p ussy!... get a better job!

dont put GF's on FB

 

[perseverance]

It wouldn't bother me.

If she is going to sit on his wang behind your back, then she's going to do it regardless of whether or not they are friends on facebook.

I think social media and networking are abhorrent and I am delighted I have deleted my facebook account. Facebook is more hassle than it's worth.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I wouldn't say a thing, what are you crazy? That gives you a license to do anything you want to do on fbook. At the first complaint from her I would throw that in her face before she even finishes the first sentence.

So yeah babe I noticed you having fun on FBook with that new g........ AHEM!!! is this the same person that has her ex on FBook? Do you have complaints? because I didn't! Fix your FBook and i'll fix mine!

I would walk away laughing too but whatever that's just me.

 

[rhythmic]

It's just a thing girls do. If it's a LTR situation and you like her a lot, just let it happen. If she's gonna fvck her ex, she's gonna fvck her ex - whether or not they're linked on Facebook. Some girls genuinely keep in touch with their exes as friends, and are either A. too blind to see that the ex only hangs around cuz he wants another swing, or B. they're part of a bigger social circle and things would get awkward if she disconnected from him.

But yeah, don't try to control that sort of thing IMO. Let it happen.

Edit: Like those guys said... Went for a sandwich mid-post!

 

[Kidquick]

I agree, don't say anything. It will make you look like an insecure chump.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

I see this a lot I would say don't say anything and just "let it be" it is part of her past and unfortunately with social media we keep running image records of our lives...those photos where when they are together a lot of people just leave them until the emotional connections fade..they maybe remove them later...most especially if it was within a year (their breakup)...just let it be and I bet some of those photos might be removed with time by her, especially if you two keep growing...

I would say just don;t look at those photos to stir up jealousy and ****..just let it be...

If you see NEW photos thats another story!!

 

[Buddha_Mind]

PS -- sorry for double post -- I have male friends who have kept those photos and as they start seeing someone new they fade away and I think not everyone is able to just torch up their pics and memorabilia as a part of them may always care about that past person despite how the relationship ended. As long as she's not meeting biweekly for coffee with this guy I would say just let those trinkets and things be that just may be how she deals with things.

 

[Down Low]

I notice that most responders say ignore it cuz slores will be slores. Pretty much the same as saying that a woman who does this is sloring.

If you don't want a slore in your life, NEXT.

 

[rhythmic]

^ It's more like IF she's going to do that, she's gonna do that. If she isn't, she isn't - but having him as a facebook friend won't make a damn bit of difference.