ex bf help

[Guitarist19]

ok so this girl and i have been talking a lot and we hung out once and i know she likes me and everything but my sister is her friend and my sister told me that she still likes her ex bf a lot - her ex and her i guess have been going on and off for about a year and recently he treated her like **** so they arnt going out - the guy is an ass hole but for some reason she still likes him... so any thoughts/suggestions on winning her over or should i just give up. . .

 

[Fitch]

I was in the SAME exact situation, TWICE. The only difference is that I do not have a sister. I found out through other means.

Give it a try. Go easy in the begining, rather than rush things. Take things slow.

I didn't. Learn from my mistakes.

 

[Guitarist19]

thanks that helps - i kinda thought that they would want to go faster but i guess not.... thanks

 

[Fitch]

Glad to help. Remember, above ALL, do not pressure her. One step to avoid unnecessiary pressure -- as I stated in the above post -- is by taking things at a slower pace. Give her time to recupirate. The more you interfere the more desperate you seem to be and the more annoying, to her, you get.

 

[Guitarist19]

wow this sucks im so confused - like i was watching tv and my sisters phone started ringing so i answered and i guess they were just texts and 3 of them were from the girl i like - on one it says "Yea i still like your brother!" and the next "I saw (insert ex bf name here) today he looked so hot!!" and the third one "Yea i just left (name of his school) he was soooo hot i wanted to give him head". . . . k so obviously she likes him still A LOT (but they are still kinda in a fight) so i went to my basketball game and when i got back i had 2 texts from her and a missed call. I dont know what to do - should i answer her and keep trying for her or just screw it

 

[Jack McCrack]

Dude, get the hell out of there as fast as possible.

 

[Guitarist19]

get out? and mc. crack do you know where greeley is