"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok so this girl and i have been talking a lot and we hung out once and i know she likes me and everything but my sister is her friend and my sister told me that she still likes her ex bf a lot - her ex and her i guess have been going on and off for about a year and recently he treated her like **** so they arnt going out - the guy is an ass hole but for some reason she still likes him... so any thoughts/suggestions on winning her over or should i just give up. . .
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was in the SAME exact situation, TWICE. The only difference is that I do not have a sister. I found out through other means.

Give it a try. Go easy in the begining, rather than rush things. Take things slow.

I didn't. Learn from my mistakes.
 
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thanks that helps - i kinda thought that they would want to go faster but i guess not.... thanks
 
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Glad to help. Remember, above ALL, do not pressure her. One step to avoid unnecessiary pressure -- as I stated in the above post -- is by taking things at a slower pace. Give her time to recupirate. The more you interfere the more desperate you seem to be and the more annoying, to her, you get.
 
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wow this sucks im so confused - like i was watching tv and my sisters phone started ringing so i answered and i guess they were just texts and 3 of them were from the girl i like - on one it says "Yea i still like your brother!" and the next "I saw (insert ex bf name here) today he looked so hot!!" and the third one "Yea i just left (name of his school) he was soooo hot i wanted to give him head". . . . k so obviously she likes him still A LOT (but they are still kinda in a fight) so i went to my basketball game and when i got back i had 2 texts from her and a missed call. I dont know what to do - should i answer her and keep trying for her or just screw it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, get the hell out of there as fast as possible.
 
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