"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok so this girl and i have been talking a lot and we hung out once and i know she likes me and everything but my sister is her friend and my sister told me that she still likes her ex bf a lot - her ex and her i guess have been going on and off for about a year and recently he treated her like **** so they arnt going out - the guy is an ass hole but for some reason she still likes him... so any thoughts/suggestions on winning her over or should i just give up. . .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was in the SAME exact situation, TWICE. The only difference is that I do not have a sister. I found out through other means.

Give it a try. Go easy in the begining, rather than rush things. Take things slow.

I didn't. Learn from my mistakes.
 
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thanks that helps - i kinda thought that they would want to go faster but i guess not.... thanks
 
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Glad to help. Remember, above ALL, do not pressure her. One step to avoid unnecessiary pressure -- as I stated in the above post -- is by taking things at a slower pace. Give her time to recupirate. The more you interfere the more desperate you seem to be and the more annoying, to her, you get.
 
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wow this sucks im so confused - like i was watching tv and my sisters phone started ringing so i answered and i guess they were just texts and 3 of them were from the girl i like - on one it says "Yea i still like your brother!" and the next "I saw (insert ex bf name here) today he looked so hot!!" and the third one "Yea i just left (name of his school) he was soooo hot i wanted to give him head". . . . k so obviously she likes him still A LOT (but they are still kinda in a fight) so i went to my basketball game and when i got back i had 2 texts from her and a missed call. I dont know what to do - should i answer her and keep trying for her or just screw it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude, get the hell out of there as fast as possible.
 
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