Evolutionary psychologist: "sexual plasticity: women have evolved to be able to find almost any guy attractive"

[MatureDJ]

Here's another time-stamp where he says that "kind men" might not be the type of man that "they may not want to be with you when they're younger, but as they get a little older, and they've been through a few of the guys who everyone else has been chasing, they're going to say 'boy, I could really use someone like you'".

What, like after they have become single mommies? This is pure RageFuel.

 

[Plinco]

You have such a negative mindset. Who cares what other people think? Unless you are looking for an enemy.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Beggars can't be choosers.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

What, like after they have become single mommies? This is pure RageFuel.

Having offspring with the most attractive partner is one of THE games in life both for men and women.

That's why both men and women try to wage their chances to get the most successful option available to them for this purpose if they are interested in this game - nevertheless, a lot of them are not aware when their SMV is the highest, therefore they often miss the best chance by misjudging chances for changes in different factors.

And that's ok, this is about survival of the fittest after all. It's objectively fair even if subjectively perceived as unfair by many.

The blow is less painful if we take under consideration that our chances are predefined to significant extent by our parents and obtained genes, money inherited or given to us, our upbringing etc.

 

[BaronOfHair]

..."kind men"...

Far too often, THAT = Being what was once known as a SNAG https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2007-nov-22-et-tell22-story.html , or(one the other end of The Sociocultural Continuum) the sort of church going man who experiences a massive coronary, when he overhears a joke that's even mildly blue

There's nothing especially kind about such men though. Other men find being around them grating, and women recognize, withing seconds of encountering them:

"I can't rely on him to be my rock"