Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Evolutionary Proof of DJ Theory

SinJester

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Ok so I'm once again directing to an article: http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/mind/articles/emotions/lonelyhearts.shtml

Here's what I want to bring attention to:

Men's preferences Women's preferences
1. Attractiveness 1. Commitment
1. Commitment 2. Social Skills
3. Social Skills 3. Resources
4. Resources 4. Attractiveness
4. Sexiness 5. Sexiness
Notice that men value looks first while it is 4th for women behind commitment, social skills and resources? Just some ammo for those who believe that looks don't matter so much. Now I'm not suggesting that the women wont cheat on you if you have the first 3, or that it has anything to do with secual attraction. Simply, it holds true to the DJ belief that looks don't matter.

In fact going slightly of topic, I can see the evolutionary advantage of a woman snaring a man to look after her and stay with her and cheating on him to make higher quality offspring, that she can be sure will me looked after by her 'mate'.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This is good information, but it's kind of narrow. Random hook-ups are different than bf/gf relationships. You don't really respond to commitment from a possible random hook-up option, you look for attractiveness/sexiness/social skills. When it comes to bf/gf relationships, this is good information.
 

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Random hook-ups are different than bf/gf relationships. You don't really respond to commitment from a possible random hook-up option, you look for attractiveness/sexiness/social skills.
I agree, before anyone else brings it up.
 
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