"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Evolutionary Proof of DJ Theory

SinJester

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Ok so I'm once again directing to an article: http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/mind/articles/emotions/lonelyhearts.shtml

Here's what I want to bring attention to:

Men's preferences Women's preferences
1. Attractiveness 1. Commitment
1. Commitment 2. Social Skills
3. Social Skills 3. Resources
4. Resources 4. Attractiveness
4. Sexiness 5. Sexiness
Notice that men value looks first while it is 4th for women behind commitment, social skills and resources? Just some ammo for those who believe that looks don't matter so much. Now I'm not suggesting that the women wont cheat on you if you have the first 3, or that it has anything to do with secual attraction. Simply, it holds true to the DJ belief that looks don't matter.

In fact going slightly of topic, I can see the evolutionary advantage of a woman snaring a man to look after her and stay with her and cheating on him to make higher quality offspring, that she can be sure will me looked after by her 'mate'.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is good information, but it's kind of narrow. Random hook-ups are different than bf/gf relationships. You don't really respond to commitment from a possible random hook-up option, you look for attractiveness/sexiness/social skills. When it comes to bf/gf relationships, this is good information.
 

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Random hook-ups are different than bf/gf relationships. You don't really respond to commitment from a possible random hook-up option, you look for attractiveness/sexiness/social skills.
I agree, before anyone else brings it up.
 
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