"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Guys,
my problem is seems to be a bit deeper :)

On one day I got the pefect state to work on myself and on another day I am depressed and dizzy.

So when I watched some David D. stuff or from anyone else with this "I changed myself"-charism than I am so motivated and I get nearly everything done, but when time passes by this power flows away.

Where could be the problem?

I think it depends on my personality or something like that, that I need something to keep that up.

I know, that isn´t so detailled. Can you help me to define the problem or git a tip for me?

thanks a lot

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think you could visit psychologist. even 2 visits can fix all yer problsm and tell you whats up. pzzz
 
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its some kind of depression or nervous problems. should be easy to fix if you see the doctor soon. np mate.
pzzz
 
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I've got the same problem.

It's called procrastination, give me more info if you don't want to know my probs

EDIT: what has this got to do with evolution?

PS o_0 if ur a psych major whats ur initail diagnosis?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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evolution because in this state I am very successful with implementing new stuff in my life.

procrastination:
u mean I´m avoiding something?
 
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YUPYUP to da pro question!

Your not doing what you COULD be doing!

I have to drill myself into not being a powder puff, I am not a wuss, I can do better than wait, etc...

It gets my brain firing at amazing speeds and you won't catch me with a single uh ohhh or umm on a given night. I turn into a motor mouth and I can't control my body to do anything WRONG with women or men in the social situation.

Some days I feel like I'm a loser who can't do anything, and I just feel like laying in bed.

I just stop and think why? 2 weeks ago my body is adjusting to something stupid I did...

"I better slap myself out of this rutt!"

than I go n SARGE!!!!
 
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