"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rubber.Deal

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Hi Guys,
my problem is seems to be a bit deeper :)

On one day I got the pefect state to work on myself and on another day I am depressed and dizzy.

So when I watched some David D. stuff or from anyone else with this "I changed myself"-charism than I am so motivated and I get nearly everything done, but when time passes by this power flows away.

Where could be the problem?

I think it depends on my personality or something like that, that I need something to keep that up.

I know, that isn´t so detailled. Can you help me to define the problem or git a tip for me?

thanks a lot

rubber.deal
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i think you could visit psychologist. even 2 visits can fix all yer problsm and tell you whats up. pzzz
 

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its some kind of depression or nervous problems. should be easy to fix if you see the doctor soon. np mate.
pzzz
 

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I've got the same problem.

It's called procrastination, give me more info if you don't want to know my probs

EDIT: what has this got to do with evolution?

PS o_0 if ur a psych major whats ur initail diagnosis?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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evolution because in this state I am very successful with implementing new stuff in my life.

procrastination:
u mean I´m avoiding something?
 

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YUPYUP to da pro question!

Your not doing what you COULD be doing!

I have to drill myself into not being a powder puff, I am not a wuss, I can do better than wait, etc...

It gets my brain firing at amazing speeds and you won't catch me with a single uh ohhh or umm on a given night. I turn into a motor mouth and I can't control my body to do anything WRONG with women or men in the social situation.

Some days I feel like I'm a loser who can't do anything, and I just feel like laying in bed.

I just stop and think why? 2 weeks ago my body is adjusting to something stupid I did...

"I better slap myself out of this rutt!"

than I go n SARGE!!!!
 
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