"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Evolution of Man

everywomanshero

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Watching how some of my friend's have progressed, I think I have a rough guide of the evolution from the lowest form of thinking to the highest (regarding success with women heirarchy). Obviously this is highly subjective, so don't take offensive if this describes your situation unjustly =) Things like AFC are not well defined enough, we need some kind of a diagnostic guide.

Stage I. Utter Dispair. Symptoms: 1) Has given up entirely and doesn't see any possibility of hope. Thoughts of suicide, crying, not even willing to try initiating chat with a woman. Believes there is some personal defect that makes it impossible for him to have a relationship with the opposite sex.

Stage II: Complete desperation. Symptoms: 1) Would betray his best friend for a 4 or below. 2) Dislikes all other men and sees them as competition. 3)Writes posts such as "I wish women ran the world". 3) Attempts to contact the opposite sex online, but doesn't have the balls to approach a live woman. 4) Begs women online to like him and wastes months and months trying to meet the same woman who is clearly not interested.

Stage III. Seeking Revenge. Symtoms: 1) Wants to show women who is the boss. 2) Writes long rants such as "the truth about women" or "all women secretly want to be gangbanged in the men's room, even your wife" lol. 3) Watches large amounts of porn. 4) Tries to learn PU techniques that will "force" women to fall for him and obey his every command. 5) Reads about hypnosis, NLP, etc.

Stage IV: Snapping back to reality: 1) Begins to realize women are more similar than different to men 2) Becomes less concerned with learning "routines" 3) Begins to make changes that are healthy for himself 4) The obsession with social approval begins to weaken 5) Getting women in bed is very easy but now the challenge is maintaining the harem, sometimes is burdened by their numbers and other times runs into brief droughts for a few days.

Stage V: The age of enlightenment: 1) His worth doesn't depend on the opinions of others 2) Banging chicks is so normal it seems humerous that anyone would spend their free time reading "methods" like they are planning a military manuevor. 3) Realization that when one has his house in order, other's wish to come in. 4) Understands the art of being normal and diplomatic. 5) Does not wish to force others to take hsi viewpoint; is comfortable with his place and life and sharing it with a select group of people. 6) Is commited to important and challenging life goals and flexible about the process of obtaining them. 7) Regularly has women wanting to escalate and often has to turn them down due to time and other constraints.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shaik

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ROFL, oh man...while I was reading that I'm like, "HOLY SH*T!!, I did that. lol..." I think it's a pretty good outline of how our mentality shifts as we gain more experience. :up:
 

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Wohoo I'm at Stage 2. Well actually I am a mix of 1, 2 and small part of 4. I don't plan to spend anytime at all in stage 3.
 

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Remembering what women did to me, I know that the tables are about to turn, and I'll treat them worse, to take out that anger from the past. Revenge is a bad thing, but sometimes, that's just the way it is.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've definitley been a little bit of the above mentioned negative stuff,but I realize I want to be number 5....
 

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Somewhere between 3 and 4.
 

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Well...

I like the model but it's incomplete.

It's like a poential cycle for a single relationship. All of you who have agreed with it are combining different parts of individual things that have happened as you've aged. I can tell you from experience I can say that I've gone through all of those "steps" representing a single year in days. It likely represents a humanitry cycle, much like a higher form of mating ritual for humans as opposed to a rise to maturity as it's being passed off as.
 

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Monday through friday I feel like a Stage I but on weekends my life turns into a Stage IV

good model, I'm sure we can all identify.
 

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I went from 1 (although I wasn't that bad) straight to 4. Never been at 2 or 3.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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