"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Evolution of Man

everywomanshero

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Watching how some of my friend's have progressed, I think I have a rough guide of the evolution from the lowest form of thinking to the highest (regarding success with women heirarchy). Obviously this is highly subjective, so don't take offensive if this describes your situation unjustly =) Things like AFC are not well defined enough, we need some kind of a diagnostic guide.

Stage I. Utter Dispair. Symptoms: 1) Has given up entirely and doesn't see any possibility of hope. Thoughts of suicide, crying, not even willing to try initiating chat with a woman. Believes there is some personal defect that makes it impossible for him to have a relationship with the opposite sex.

Stage II: Complete desperation. Symptoms: 1) Would betray his best friend for a 4 or below. 2) Dislikes all other men and sees them as competition. 3)Writes posts such as "I wish women ran the world". 3) Attempts to contact the opposite sex online, but doesn't have the balls to approach a live woman. 4) Begs women online to like him and wastes months and months trying to meet the same woman who is clearly not interested.

Stage III. Seeking Revenge. Symtoms: 1) Wants to show women who is the boss. 2) Writes long rants such as "the truth about women" or "all women secretly want to be gangbanged in the men's room, even your wife" lol. 3) Watches large amounts of porn. 4) Tries to learn PU techniques that will "force" women to fall for him and obey his every command. 5) Reads about hypnosis, NLP, etc.

Stage IV: Snapping back to reality: 1) Begins to realize women are more similar than different to men 2) Becomes less concerned with learning "routines" 3) Begins to make changes that are healthy for himself 4) The obsession with social approval begins to weaken 5) Getting women in bed is very easy but now the challenge is maintaining the harem, sometimes is burdened by their numbers and other times runs into brief droughts for a few days.

Stage V: The age of enlightenment: 1) His worth doesn't depend on the opinions of others 2) Banging chicks is so normal it seems humerous that anyone would spend their free time reading "methods" like they are planning a military manuevor. 3) Realization that when one has his house in order, other's wish to come in. 4) Understands the art of being normal and diplomatic. 5) Does not wish to force others to take hsi viewpoint; is comfortable with his place and life and sharing it with a select group of people. 6) Is commited to important and challenging life goals and flexible about the process of obtaining them. 7) Regularly has women wanting to escalate and often has to turn them down due to time and other constraints.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ROFL, oh man...while I was reading that I'm like, "HOLY SH*T!!, I did that. lol..." I think it's a pretty good outline of how our mentality shifts as we gain more experience. :up:
 

Maxtro

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Wohoo I'm at Stage 2. Well actually I am a mix of 1, 2 and small part of 4. I don't plan to spend anytime at all in stage 3.
 

DJVladdy

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Remembering what women did to me, I know that the tables are about to turn, and I'll treat them worse, to take out that anger from the past. Revenge is a bad thing, but sometimes, that's just the way it is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've definitley been a little bit of the above mentioned negative stuff,but I realize I want to be number 5....
 

SinJester

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Somewhere between 3 and 4.
 

PRMoon

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Well...

I like the model but it's incomplete.

It's like a poential cycle for a single relationship. All of you who have agreed with it are combining different parts of individual things that have happened as you've aged. I can tell you from experience I can say that I've gone through all of those "steps" representing a single year in days. It likely represents a humanitry cycle, much like a higher form of mating ritual for humans as opposed to a rise to maturity as it's being passed off as.
 

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Monday through friday I feel like a Stage I but on weekends my life turns into a Stage IV

good model, I'm sure we can all identify.
 

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I went from 1 (although I wasn't that bad) straight to 4. Never been at 2 or 3.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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