Everytime she says 'maybe' or 'we'll see' is it 100% no interest??

[GeeMale]

For example there was this coworker I asked out she said maybe

I said it's okay you don't have to

She asked age,etc and we exchanged numbers

I texted her a few days later she said she is working today. Than I asked to hang out after work. She didn't answer so late that night I texted that I'm no longer interested to meet up, EVER.

She texted saying I'm mean,and to leave her alone and that it was raining so she couldn't answer and had to walk home..

I never texted her and cut her off and haven't talked to her at work.

 

[Who Dares Win]

What basically happened imo is that you asked her out and she wasnt interested, she soft rejected you and moved over.

You then asked her out again and again she soft rejected you with the excuse of work and didnt make a counteroffer (further sign of lack of interest).

You turned into butthurt mode and tried to take control back with that message as if you could rejected someone who rejected you.

She got creeped out from you and finally had the reason to openly tell you to leave her alone.

Not bad, you basically made everything possible to go against common sense...step one was asking a female coworker out in 2018.

Talking about 2018, right now any answer that doesnt show a strong sign of interest has to be considered a red flag...its either low interest of manipulation (which is low interest while looking for benefits)...any obstacle from her, doubts or lack of counteroffers are a clear red flag.

 

[GeeMale]

Before asking her she always flirted and touched .

I knew I should ask out coworker but IMO it's not a proper career job anyways so I didn't care.

And you make it sound like I was creepily chasing her. Dude she flirted at work and I kept cool and collected. She always turns around and looks at me and I catch her.

And when she said she's at work today It was after we asked each how we are doing lol. (She said 'good I'm at work today)

4 hours later I texted her to meet later after work(she doesn't have car so I intended to pick her up)

She didn't text back so 3 hours later from sending last text while she was now off is when I told her I'm not interested.

I literally though she didn't text back cause she was trying to keep up with the length of how long I go in between texts lol


But it's not a biggie.

I just noticed a coupl other chicks in past said maybe or well see and exchanged numbers but they couldn't give a ****

 

[Mazer]

She isnt interested. Move on. I have been given a "maybe" about a dozen times by women, every single woman wouldnt commit to a date.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

For example there was this coworker I asked out she said maybe

I said it's okay you don't have to

She asked age,etc and we exchanged numbers

I texted her a few days later she said she is working today. Than I asked to hang out after work. She didn't answer so late that night I texted that I'm no longer interested to meet up, EVER.

She texted saying I'm mean,and to leave her alone and that it was raining so she couldn't answer and had to walk home..

I never texted her and cut her off and haven't talked to her at work.

You did right

 

[R.U.G.]

You shouldn't sh!t where you eat. Why create unnecessary drama to begin with. Unwise.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

your gut is right.

soon
maybe
we'll see
one day
lol
ur silly
i JUST saw this
i was busy
i'll let you know

= curve

Respond "maybe not"

 

[EyeBRollin]

Don't ask out coworkers.

Maybe always means no.

Does a woman ever say maybe when a guy she likes asks her out?

Stop rationalizing.

 

[Reykhel]

Don't ask out coworkers.

Learn this rule easy or learn it hard. These days I'm very choosy about who I socialize with nevermind with who I "date" (whatever the fvck that is).
The workplace is a place to make money (supposedly), never let anybody jeoperodize your ability to pull in cash. Please learn this lesson fast. money is key to your life. Protect your ability to attract it. Protect your ability to earn it.

Are bytches worth that risk? for me no. are coworkers worth socialising with? for me no.

Choose your company wisely.

 

[greatsnake]

Next her.

Low interest = no interest

 

[The Diver]

your gut is right.

soon
maybe
we'll see
one day
lol
ur silly
i JUST saw this
i was busy
i'll let you know

= curve

Anything other than YES is NO .

 

[highSpeed]

She isnt interested. Move on. I have been given a "maybe" about a dozen times by women, every single woman wouldnt commit to a date.

Let me make this as simple as possible for you, if it's a maybe, you ain't getting to make no baby.

 

[marmel75]

She smells the neediness from a mile away.

 

[Spidah]

OP your behavior shows a scarcity mindset. Over-reacting when hoes don't act the way you want is weak.

When these bitches tell you maybe, just put them on ice and get other plates. When the bytch gets with your program, then you can have your fun. Otherwise, ignore her ass.

 

[GeeMale]

OP your behavior shows a scarcity mindset. Over-reacting when hoes don't act the way you want is weak.

When these bitches tell you maybe, just put them on ice and get other plates. When the bytch gets with your program, then you can have your fun. Otherwise, ignore her ass.

I appreciate that
I'm just so embarrassed I actually asked for numbers and tried to chase lots of chicks in past who said maybe or well see...thinking I have to be suave enought to get the date LMFAO!! Man they most likely thought I was creepy AF! Some guys live by 'make the hoe say no'. Bad advice lol
If only I knew I would save so much precious energy and time

 

[mrgoodstuff]

"maybe" or "we will see" or even "I'll think about it" are no go. Player Supreme would say "if she's not choosing she's a zero to me".

 

[ohrein]

My girlfriend recently said "maybe we'll have sex tonight". I can't remember why, I think I was trying to spin the hamster early in the day. Anyway, the maybe from her was a nope from me. Posted about it another thread, just went to sleep that night despite the fact she jumped into bed naked instead of in PJ's (guess the hamster spinning worked). I don't do "maybe", though so no dice.

Me: "Wanna hang out on the weekend?"
Her: "Maybe".
Me: "Actually, I have plans already, don't worry about it. x"

I'm not sure if maybes are a sh1t test or low interest but either way, ain't nobody got time for dat!

 

[nismo-4]

It's black and white. Either yes or no. In between is a no.

Every girl I've asked out who said maybe, I deleted immediately. Some of these girls I work with, so I just ignore.

Anything other than a yes is a no. Mixed signals are negative signals. 2018 fact of the year.

No motherf**ker on this forum should have time in their lives for game playing women to be in it.

#micdrop

 

[GeeMale]

#1 Maybe = no. Do you think if Ryan Gosling would've asked her out she would've said "maybe"? Hell no.

#2 NEVER date a chick you work with.

#3 You texted way too much. You chased her. A woman does NOT want to be chased. She wants to do the chasing.

#4 You texting her you're no longer interested was just your way of getting the last word. She could care less honestly and it made you look psycho. Next time just ghost. Silence is louder.

#5 Her saying you're mean and to leave her alone makes you look crazy dude. When it gets the point where you're getting emotional that means you've already invested too much into this chick. Tighten up man and learn from this. You needed this to happen. Now your game will be better next time with a better chick.

I didn't really want to date her just a sexual encounter(s).

I ghosted after she sent that last text. Anyways I could care less about it now. You're right SILENCE IS LOUDER LOL.

 

[Glassguy]

I had a chick (super hot well stacked redhead) match and message me on Bumble this week. She messaged me and blew me up. Told her I was busy, we can catch up later....told her to figure out when she was free to continue the convo over a drink or two.

She adds me on fb (found me through searching I guess) and sends me a message there. I ask when she is free.....she gives me a little runaround about how she is busy till next week. So I say "perfect...I am busy till next week too. Let's do Monday evening at 8 at such and such place".

Her response was " We will see. Not sure what I will be doing next Monday yet". (No counter offer).
Me: don't worry about it. Consider the offer for Monday withdrawn. Hit me up down the road when you know you'll be free.
Her: ok lol
Me: Dueces
Her (2 hrs after reading my last message): seriously?
Me: yeah. You've already killed my interest now. Good luck.
Her (today): hey you

I didnt respond and I wont until I get a counter offer for a time for drinks.

I will continue to smash my main plate and the 2 new ones. If she wants to throw her name in the hat later, fine. If not, that's fine too.

Bail asap after they throw out the "lol ok", "we will see", "I'll let you know" etc.

I simply withdraw my offer and tell her to hit me up down the road if she changes her mind and then no more messaging or contact. Some come back, some dont. I give zero fvcks either way.