"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Everything you ever wanted to know about online dating

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I don't think I have ever seen a publication that goes into such scientific detail about what people are attracted to in the online dating world.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

It is long and I have barely started reading it myself. I didn't know there were any studies that went through this much detail on the subject.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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StevenR said:
I don't think I have ever seen a publication that goes into such scientific detail about what people are attracted to in the online dating world.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

It is long and I have barely started reading it myself. I didn't know there were any studies that went through this much detail on the subject.
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online dating can suck my balls. Real men don't go online and type their resumes to attract women. Get out of the house!
 
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WHY IS THIS IN THE DJ FORUM. for ****'s sake delete this thread
 
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you are right, perhaps I should have posted it in the mature man forum
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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