"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Everything you ever wanted to know about online dating

StevenR

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I don't think I have ever seen a publication that goes into such scientific detail about what people are attracted to in the online dating world.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

It is long and I have barely started reading it myself. I didn't know there were any studies that went through this much detail on the subject.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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StevenR said:
I don't think I have ever seen a publication that goes into such scientific detail about what people are attracted to in the online dating world.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

It is long and I have barely started reading it myself. I didn't know there were any studies that went through this much detail on the subject.
online dating can suck my balls. Real men don't go online and type their resumes to attract women. Get out of the house!
 

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WHY IS THIS IN THE DJ FORUM. for ****'s sake delete this thread
 

StevenR

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you are right, perhaps I should have posted it in the mature man forum
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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