"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everything you ever wanted to know about online dating

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I don't think I have ever seen a publication that goes into such scientific detail about what people are attracted to in the online dating world.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

It is long and I have barely started reading it myself. I didn't know there were any studies that went through this much detail on the subject.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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StevenR said:
I don't think I have ever seen a publication that goes into such scientific detail about what people are attracted to in the online dating world.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

It is long and I have barely started reading it myself. I didn't know there were any studies that went through this much detail on the subject.
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online dating can suck my balls. Real men don't go online and type their resumes to attract women. Get out of the house!
 
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WHY IS THIS IN THE DJ FORUM. for ****'s sake delete this thread
 
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you are right, perhaps I should have posted it in the mature man forum
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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