"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Everything Just.. Bores me Now?

Desdinova

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Im intrigued. Brother whats your current job? And/or favorite job you ever had?
I changed from a desk job to working in health care, visiting different sites. After that, I ran my own thrift store. I did a lot of sitting at a desk, but the donations and the shoppers kept things interesting. I had a lot of repeat customers who I got to know on a more personal level, and it was always interesting to see what they bought or brought. Some would stay for an hour and just chat with me.

I loved both of those jobs but for different reasons.

I'm currently unable to work due to health reasons which should hopefully be temporary. I'm just glad I made good choices with my finances and my living situation in my younger years.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BaronOfHair

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Look brother, life isn't supposed t0 be fun all the time.life is about surviving
Yep. Prior to The 20th Century(Just a blink of an eye, in the span of human history), less than 1% of the human race(the aristocracy)had the luxury of thinking about fun, rather spending their every waking hour surviving

As serious as the problems we moderns have, this is all sh-t our ancestors in The 1800s-all centuries prior would be grateful to have
 
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