"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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underdog

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Well yesterday I quit my job cause I was getting mistreated by all of my managers, they just keeped on messing with my schedule never letting me have weekends off or anything. The basically treated me like sh.t. So yesterday I told them I quit. I only worked with this company for 5 months. the whole time there they just gave me tons of problems, they stressed me out a lot. They tried to intimidate me, but I didnt let them. They basically fu.ked with my life. So now im doing online school. So what im kinda mad about is im not going to be around girls much, so I was wondering should I spend alot of my time being on this site and trying techniques out? also I forgot to say I like working out, so should I just keep up with those things? please help me im kinda feeling down.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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Why not get another job? Online schooling doesn't take up that much time so there's no reason why you couldn't occupy sometime with more work.
 

PuroDeAgave

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What was your old job? do you have a lot of friends? I bet if you hung out with them on weekends it would be easier to meet girls. definitley keep working out . try to get a job you can enjoy or with people you can talk to like at a clothes store or something where theres people your age
 

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I agree with both of you. If I ever get horny I will go to my old job which is K mart and hit on the girls I used to work with lol. and there are some hotties there.
 

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Spend this time working on your assets...

by assets i mean

1. body
2. mind
3. car
4. job
5. hobbies
6. sports

start working out hard, start reading useful books, find a nice job, get afew cool hobbies if you dont have any, and join a sport. Work on yourself and tell the rest of the world to basically "Fvck off" for awhile.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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