"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well yesterday I quit my job cause I was getting mistreated by all of my managers, they just keeped on messing with my schedule never letting me have weekends off or anything. The basically treated me like sh.t. So yesterday I told them I quit. I only worked with this company for 5 months. the whole time there they just gave me tons of problems, they stressed me out a lot. They tried to intimidate me, but I didnt let them. They basically fu.ked with my life. So now im doing online school. So what im kinda mad about is im not going to be around girls much, so I was wondering should I spend alot of my time being on this site and trying techniques out? also I forgot to say I like working out, so should I just keep up with those things? please help me im kinda feeling down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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Why not get another job? Online schooling doesn't take up that much time so there's no reason why you couldn't occupy sometime with more work.
 

PuroDeAgave

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What was your old job? do you have a lot of friends? I bet if you hung out with them on weekends it would be easier to meet girls. definitley keep working out . try to get a job you can enjoy or with people you can talk to like at a clothes store or something where theres people your age
 

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I agree with both of you. If I ever get horny I will go to my old job which is K mart and hit on the girls I used to work with lol. and there are some hotties there.
 

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Spend this time working on your assets...

by assets i mean

1. body
2. mind
3. car
4. job
5. hobbies
6. sports

start working out hard, start reading useful books, find a nice job, get afew cool hobbies if you dont have any, and join a sport. Work on yourself and tell the rest of the world to basically "Fvck off" for awhile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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