"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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underdog

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Well yesterday I quit my job cause I was getting mistreated by all of my managers, they just keeped on messing with my schedule never letting me have weekends off or anything. The basically treated me like sh.t. So yesterday I told them I quit. I only worked with this company for 5 months. the whole time there they just gave me tons of problems, they stressed me out a lot. They tried to intimidate me, but I didnt let them. They basically fu.ked with my life. So now im doing online school. So what im kinda mad about is im not going to be around girls much, so I was wondering should I spend alot of my time being on this site and trying techniques out? also I forgot to say I like working out, so should I just keep up with those things? please help me im kinda feeling down.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PRMoon

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Why not get another job? Online schooling doesn't take up that much time so there's no reason why you couldn't occupy sometime with more work.
 

PuroDeAgave

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What was your old job? do you have a lot of friends? I bet if you hung out with them on weekends it would be easier to meet girls. definitley keep working out . try to get a job you can enjoy or with people you can talk to like at a clothes store or something where theres people your age
 

underdog

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I agree with both of you. If I ever get horny I will go to my old job which is K mart and hit on the girls I used to work with lol. and there are some hotties there.
 

BluEyes

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Spend this time working on your assets...

by assets i mean

1. body
2. mind
3. car
4. job
5. hobbies
6. sports

start working out hard, start reading useful books, find a nice job, get afew cool hobbies if you dont have any, and join a sport. Work on yourself and tell the rest of the world to basically "Fvck off" for awhile.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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